Let me just say from my vast experience with internet dating sites, just because someone claims to be a Christian does not mean they are.
This especially includes all religious related sites, as they are filled with those who choose to use belief systems to get a date.
Some of us that are saved are too meek and mild mannered to understand how dangerous predators really are.
All dating sites are filled with scammers, and those who wish to cause others harm. Be diligently careful.
My advice is as follows:
1) Only converse with others that live within a reasonable distance to maintain a relationship.
International scammers are really out there in abundance.
2) Never give out personal information such as your full name, address, or phone number.
This is how hackers can your info. 1.4 million identity thefts were reported last year by the FTC in the U.S.
3) Arrange a meeting in a public or busy establishment where there are lots of people (preferably where they know who you are).
In North Carolina where I live over 96,000 people were reported missing last year. Yes, many of those people did get abducted.
4) Wait until you have met someone in person, and know you are attracted to them before giving out your phone number.
Most of the time I find people lie about their age, weight, occupation, education, religious beliefs, and post old pictures.
5) Do not let anyone know where you live until you trust them. I take them to church, as there are law enforcement officers
in my congregation that do run checks to protect our community. They wont tell me what they find, but will tell me not to date "that one".
I did not post this information to scare anyone, but to inform others of the dangerous positions I have placed myself in.
In their infancy online dating sites were once a wonderful place to meet people, date, and make new friends. Much of the time, they still can be.
Ive had good dating experiences in the last 15-16 years since becoming twice a widow. However, the cons for me definitely outweigh the pros.
Finding chemistry, an appropriate fit, and life partner is a difficult task indeed. I quit trying a long time ago.
If our Father in heaven, in the name of His Son Jesus Christ,
wants me to share my life with someone, it will be HIS doing. Amen.