Romans 8:26
And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don't know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words.
Romans 8:27
And the Father who knows all hearts knows what the Spirit is saying, for the Spirit pleads for us believers in harmony with God's own will.
Romans 8:28
And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.
When you put Romans 8:28 back into the conversation being spoken, well it changes to what verse 28 is pertaining to.
Seems He is talking about all the above in prayer working together for the good.
Man has come up with this deal that hey God gave his permission for your family's down fall and remember now this is all working for your good.
1. Yes God can work good into a bad situation but you have got to allow Him to and you do that by operating in His ways no matter what.
This includes, Love, Joy, Forgiveness and Faith.
2. Bottom line is John 10:10
The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.
God does not give permission for everything that happens in one's life.
Blessings
FCJ