Hello Bob;
What I find sad is Christians who don't forgive Christians. For example, we tend to form a new "relationship" instead of "a calling" with a new church we attend. Then when something goes awry usually with another member or leader, we usually leave with unforgiveness behind and go to the next church down the street. It may seem like a brand new start but there is leftover, unsettled forgiveness from the last church.
When we attend a church, it's not to form a new "relationship" but with the intent of where God wants us to serve Him. From that we receive a deeper discipleship of how to respond in all situations including forgiveness.
God bless you, Bob and your whole family.