HOLINESS: Again I say, this is perhaps the most important attribute that a Christian can strive for. So much sin and worldliness can be avoided by a constant focus in our daily lives on
to be holy like God, Who, demonstrated how it must be done by the life of His Son, Christ Jesus.
Sometimes, it's beneficial to look at what makes up an unholy man. The following is a short list that comes to my mind.
1. Unholy men don't study the Scriptures every day. Every man who loves God, must love His Word as a reminder daily how to live godly in Christ Jesus.
2. Unholy men are
invisible at home and at work. Someone has said, "God is not pleased with a secret service Christian." I have discovered that when a Husband lives up to 25 & 26, great things happen in the home.
25 - "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and
gave himself up for her,
26 - that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water
with the word."
That alone can inject into the fabric of that Christian home, examples to the children, relatives and friends that somehow by God's power, it shapes their own thinking and practices, even for future generations.
EXAMPLE: My Daughter is 55 years old. She "home schooled" her five children. Her Husband lives up to the Ephesians quote. As a result, their children, Douglas, Nichole, David, Hannah, and Lydia are really model Christian young people. Three of them are contemplating marriage. I say all of this, not only to brag on my kids and their kids

but also to point out how important the husbands role in the home to be holy and to love his wife with genuine application is! Hey folks, it works!!
3. Unholy men allow their Wives and Daughters to go out in public dressed immodestly....Worst of all, they dress like that at church. I have witnessed that to many times.
4. Unholy men look lustfully at other women, even in church. Recently, a Deacon in the church that I used to attend, fell into lust for the Pastor's Wife. In my opinion, she did not dress modestly. That's no excuse for the Deacon, I'm just pointing this out as an example.
5. Unholy men are not teaching holiness in their homes. How can they? Their not holy themselves....Dr. Ed Hindson, Professor at Liberty Baptist University in Virginia once said, "Men, it you don't live a godly life before your children, when they go out on a date, your caution to them to "be careful" will cause them to laugh all the way to the car." (something like that)
May God's Grace and Peace be with all who read this.