As Christians, our identities should revolve around living righteously, and loving others with God’s supernatural love, and should in no way reflect a desire for worldly success that eclipses our desire to serve God, either by taking up too much of our time, conversations or identity, especially around other believers, as the biggest topics of conversation should be what God is doing in our lives, how we are growing, etc…, as we should all be focused on growing closer to God with enthusiasm, not talking like the rest of the world...