Loneliness

[Ever since COVID and the church compliance of isolation the fabric of our fellowship with other humans degrades. The epidemic of isolation and loneliness is crushing.]

HEALTHY LIVING


The Importance of Third Spaces Amidst America’s Social Isolation Epidemic​

by Ebele Mogo, DrPH, Blue Zones:

“Loneliness has been dubbed the new smoking by health experts, including the Surgeon General of America, Dr. Vivek Murthy, who says that loneliness is as bad for our well–being as smoking fifteen cigarettes daily. The effects are dire. People who are more socially isolated feel the effects of stress more. They are three times more likely to be depressed and also at greater risk for high blood pressure, high blood sugar, and overall poorer heart health.

Yet, according to a Gallup survey, 17 percent of American adults answered yes to the question of whether they felt lonely most of the past day. Unfortunately, as much as 24 percent of young adults answered yes to the same question. Our elderly are also no strangers to the pangs of loneliness; with one in ten of them also answering yes to that question.

As adults, creating and sustaining friendships outside of the typical work and family routines can become a challenge. We lose the natural connections that develop from running into our playmates in our neighborhood and seeing the same faces in school. As the science shows, it takes a literal toll on our hearts.”

Read how we need places beyond work and home where we interact freely and casually in our communities
 
[Ever since COVID and the church compliance of isolation the fabric of our fellowship with other humans degrades. The epidemic of isolation and loneliness is crushing.]

HEALTHY LIVING


The Importance of Third Spaces Amidst America’s Social Isolation Epidemic​

by Ebele Mogo, DrPH, Blue Zones:

“Loneliness has been dubbed the new smoking by health experts, including the Surgeon General of America, Dr. Vivek Murthy, who says that loneliness is as bad for our well–being as smoking fifteen cigarettes daily. The effects are dire. People who are more socially isolated feel the effects of stress more. They are three times more likely to be depressed and also at greater risk for high blood pressure, high blood sugar, and overall poorer heart health.

Yet, according to a Gallup survey, 17 percent of American adults answered yes to the question of whether they felt lonely most of the past day. Unfortunately, as much as 24 percent of young adults answered yes to the same question. Our elderly are also no strangers to the pangs of loneliness; with one in ten of them also answering yes to that question.

As adults, creating and sustaining friendships outside of the typical work and family routines can become a challenge. We lose the natural connections that develop from running into our playmates in our neighborhood and seeing the same faces in school. As the science shows, it takes a literal toll on our hearts.”

Read how we need places beyond work and home where we interact freely and casually in our communities
Mabel, this is simply my personal opinion on this.

"I" think that the Covid gave a lot of religious people who did not want to be in church an excuse to not be in church!
Those people who were committed to Christ came no matter what was said. In Florida, our governor did not exclude church services in any way.

We followed the rules handed down and had Zero infections and actually grew the attendance and the giving.
 
Good morning, brothers and sisters;

When we opened up our Sunday morning worship services there were sprinkles of young adults, mid age and senior members who entered the sanctuary with loneliness, especially during the Holiday Thanksgiving and Christmas Season.

Paul was a master at including greetings in all 13 of his epistles and this inspired me. At the end of our service during the commitment song, I would go up to each member and shake their hand and thank God for each one. When there was overflow in attendance my deacon or elder would assist.

Being a lone Christian is not healthy. The gathering of worshipers helps heal loneliness and provides belonging.

Loneliness goes beyond being a statistical breakdown in our well being, it's painful for the spirit and bones. Just to be welcomed, appreciated with a handshake or hug, it's an uplifter and it's ok for the eyes to get weepy, or a smile breaks out and even laughter at the conclusion of service going into the new week.

After weeks or months our members still had their share of physical challenges, but the slow healing of loneliness began to melt away. It touched me to witness this.

John 14:17-18, 17 the Helper is the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it does not see Him or know Him; but you know Him because He remains with you and will be in you. 18 “I will not leave you as orphans; I am coming to you. - NASB

God bless everyone and Merry Christmas.

Bob
 
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Mabel, this is simply my personal opinion on this.

"I" think that the Covid gave a lot of religious people who did not want to be in church an excuse to not be in church!
Those people who were committed to Christ came no matter what was said. In Florida, our governor did not exclude church services in any way.

We followed the rules handed down and had Zero infections and actually grew the attendance and the giving.
Maj!

Soooo respect you and your corageous stands on The Rock!

Florida lead the way on what the rest of the states should have done.

We left our Baptist church in Knoxville we were attending because the “preacher” did not address the COVID question correctly and chose to say nothing.

We now are attending a much sweeter fellowship and braver congregation of those who refuse to submit to the tyranny of fear.

We will indeed all stand before The Throne reviewing our sins of commission and omission.

May we unite in fellowship in deed as well as word.

The Two Greatest Commandments our stay and stand.

In Christ the solid rock we stand all other ground is sinking sand!

In love to the brethren,

~ Mabe
 
I guess I am the odd duck out on this issue... I believe the shutting down of businesses and churches was simply following the laws of the land.
I did not place a religious or political opinion.

I got covid the second year of the pandemic and it was NOT fun. Many people died from it. It is what it is. I do not believe we LOST our rights...
we were inconvenienced. but.... that is just me.

Were mistakes made??? ABSOLUTELY.

What I find tragic is that many of the Christians decided to cause an unnecessary war over the vaccines.
 
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Beautiful!

Our Pastor’s Sermon o

Maj!

Soooo respect you and your corageous stands on The Rock!

Florida lead the way on what the rest of the states should have done.

We left our Baptist church in Knoxville we were attending because the “preacher” did not address the COVID question correctly and chose to say nothing.

We now are attending a much sweeter fellowship and braver congregation of those who refuse to submit to the tyranny of fear.

We will indeed all stand before The Throne reviewing our sins of commission and omission.

May we unite in fellowship in deed as well as word.

The Two Greatest Commandments our stay and stand.

In Christ the solid rock we stand all other ground is sinking sand!

In love to the brethren,

~ Mabe
Thanks Mabel.

We did what everyone needs to do in a time of chaos.....keep the faith and stay firm.

We were very fortunate to have a great governor! He is just like Trump....down to earth and KISS...........Keep it simple stupid!
 
Loneliness can be downright crippling. Prolonged loneliness creates a kind of feedback loop where you start believing you'll always be alone. Then the self hatred and reckless behavior set in.

I recommend anyone suffering loneliness to first realize it's not your fault and you've done no wrong. Then make a point of putting yourself out there where you have opportunity to meet people. Join a club, attend a church, volunteer for a cause. The worst thing you can do is sit at home, alone, festering in your misery.
 
Loneliness can be downright crippling. Prolonged loneliness creates a kind of feedback loop where you start believing you'll always be alone. Then the self hatred and reckless behavior set in.

I recommend anyone suffering loneliness to first realize it's not your fault and you've done no wrong. Then make a point of putting yourself out there where you have opportunity to meet people. Join a club, attend a church, volunteer for a cause. The worst thing you can do is sit at home, alone, festering in your misery.
This was beautifully and compassionately stated... Thank you!!!
 
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