I once had a conversation with a "senior pastor" of a particular independent church organization on a certain city where I once resided. The topic of the conversation started with a reference to a book written by James Rutz called The Open Church (which is still available to this day, many years later, on Amazon).

The striking part of the conversation was his question to me, "Without a senior pastor, who makes the final decisions?"

What came to my mind was something like this:
1 Peter 5:1 The elders which are among you I exhort, who am also an elder, and a witness of the sufferings of Christ, and also a partaker of the glory that shall be revealed:

Peter, whom many assume was the chief among the apostles, placed himself in the ranks of the elders. It's my contention that not all who are called "elders" today are elders of biblical stature, but that's another topic entirely in relation to the thrust of this OP.

Bottom line, TRUE elders of biblical stature are men who serve in various capacities, never really demanding a particular title, although most of churchianity practices calling some men "Pastor So-and-so," or "Elder So-and-so...," TRUE elders are men who can teach, disciple, oversee, some of whom, as the verse above states, walked with Christ in person.

The value of such men is absolute, and yet so few men walk as giants in the faith on account of their possessing the title by election by some "board" within their respective churchianity organization, but not by the stature identified within the scriptures.

That "senior pastor" on the phone with me made this distinction abundantly clear, beyond any doubt...at least with himself and among his followers, when he asked me that question as to who makes the final decision. When I asked him to clarify his inquiry, he gave a generalized scenario of a decision for the color of the carpet, with the elder board not being able to settle on a final decision in unison...who, then, would make that final decision to overcome the dead-lock?

After pointing out that I would prefer a more serious scenario of difficulty, I stated that the elders should go into their prayer closets and seek the Lord for His direction if in fact that organization were under the Lord's own Headship.

To that he persisted, forcing the scenario into the situation of the elders STILL not being able to come to unified decision, and so who, then, would have to step in to make the final decision, he asked.

This betrayed to me the lack in the Lord's Headship practiced in that man's "church," among his followers...and yes, I do mean HIS followers.

It was then that I asked him WHY any group of elders would not be able to be unified under the direction and Headship of Christ through their prayer, except that they be men who lack spiritual depth, functioning under the Headship of the One Christ over all, to which he responded that THEN the "senior pastor" MUST step in to make that decision. That was the last straw for him because of how well it exposed the lack of spiritual depth among those he cultivated into a collection of spiritually vacuous men he called his "elders."

What came from this is the fact that he had cultivated a system where his value was found only in his ability to make up for the lack of spiritual life functioning in those under him, and that by exercising CEO-like authority, he found his niche for value within that organization.

It didn't occur to him in the least what a failure he was as a man who SHOULD be functioning under the Headship of Christ above all else, and raising up saints who would grow and mature toward the fullness of the stature of Christ.

He revealed to me his preference for perpetual sheep who bleat and whine after him and his false glow of authority and maturity, who become aware of their need to aspire nor surpass him in spiritual strength, knowledge and functionality, but rather sit in the pews in perpetuity (without end), under his minimal level of spiritual maturity. It's all about what he had built up. He wasn't hired. No. He built that group and that facility on the backs of spiritual midgets. One of his own elders validated this to me some years later after leaving that place and serving under that "pastor."

This is an example of why there is DOUBLE judgement upon those who teach, and it also demonstrates how there are those who don't take that seriously...until that day comes when they stand trembling before the Majesty of the Most High.

MM
 
One thing to keep in mind, folks, are the many, many teachings in relation to the seven churches mentioned in Revelation. It is said by many that we today are in the Laodicean age, which is representative of a lukewarm church. It's sad that there are many that fit this description, many of which are VERY large, populated largely with people whom the Lord will spew from His mouth (so to speak).

MM
 
Hello Musicmaster;

This is really tough. I don't know the conversation you had with the senior pastor. I know you, but I don't know this man of God and if I had that conversation with him I would have asked certain questions pertaining to his role in the Church he serves.

I have these conversations with many pastors and we exchange learning and being learned. I'm currently mentoring young men of God who feel called to become pastors and are preparing one day at a time, in God's time.

When the pastor you spoke with asked you, "Without a senior pastor, who makes the final decisions?"

My response to that is my experience in each of the 4 Churches I served started first with God's assignment of those ministries and His appointment of each respected ministry leader. These leaders are accountable for their calling and my role is to pray and seek God's appointment of each ministry. As a pastor God grew me up with a servant's heart to support and submit to the respective ministry leader's leading and communicate weekly their challenges, setbacks and progress.

Examples of these leaders were the Board of Directors, men and women's ministries, youth, children, music, media and outreach (evangelism and missionary). The final decisions happen often when our leaders reached a lock, and from their understanding on their first day of training that I would step in and help them by making the final decision.

Ten years ago a young member who served in the music ministry had bouts of a verbal temper. This member was corrected behind closed doors until one day the praise team leader got a mouthful from this member with extreme disrespect. I had a meeting with the music ministry and my staff. The music leader was at a loss what to do, so I stepped in to help make the final decision by having the young member step down, take time off and just worship and study on Sundays and at Bible study. I delegated the music minister to administer this discipline to the member. The member had a tantrum but ended up sitting in the pew for a time and still attended Bible study. After weeks of prayer I met with the music minister and staff. We agreed the young member had humbled down and asked the leader when he felt the member was ready to serve again.

We never had another incident with this member with the praise team and went on to become a wonderful children's minister.

When our Church revised it's Bylaws back in 2017 this took weeks. I sat with the Board and prayerfully supported and submitted to their decisions. But when certain articles arose to the qualifications of ministry leadership, it required my help in making the final decision when the Board couldn't decide. We completed the Bylaws and it was signed off.

I've experienced three categories of pastors I know who serve in the Church. They are theologically trained but lack interpersonal people skills. There are pastors who are great with people but lack the theological training. There are pastors who lack both and cannot make final decisions.

This makes raising an anointed associate pastor, elder or deacon difficult.

Every pastor who is called to oversee a Church brings assets and weaknesses. Some cannot manage a time schedule which is vital in managing and caring for God's Church. Some cannot keep a check and balance. Some struggle with leading a Bible study or delivering a sermon. The list is long. This is why a pastor must discern in expanding other leaders with the gift set to help the various ministries.

We look to the strengths and frailties of God's servants, Adam, Eve, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Moses, Eli, Jeremiah, Jonah, etc...Jesus led 12 disciples who were a bunch of knuckleheads who ended up scattering after spending 3 years with Him. But as we continue to read God's Word we see how He makes a way to use His imperfect servants His Good.

Two large liabilities are pastors who announce why they deserve to be a pastor and love to be addressed by their title. These are flags especially when one or the other is taken out of context and for self glory.

When I was ordained I was asked why should I be a pastor? Truthfully, my answer was I don't deserve to be a pastor, or this noble task. My sins are too great. Today I still have 5-7 mentor pastors who continue to meet with me and hold me accountable.

My title is only to allow the congregation to know who their shepherd is, or who is serving as a music minister, Bible study or Sunday School teacher, etc...and who they can go to with any specific concern. Many just call me by my first name and that's fine. Again, it needs to stay in context for His glory.

I can reference the 7 Churches in Revelation and aside from the flaws of 5 Churches including lukewarm, I feel every Church today that is truly following Jesus can be included with the 5 Churches. No one Church has mastered God's plan but the Churches in Smyrna and Philadelphia are an encouragement to all of us who strive for obedience and to serve in God's Churches.

I believe the Christian Church is autonomous and the way we govern Church may be different from the Church down the street or on the hill. The pastors who lead these Churches, not perfect, but with righteous motives need to be prayed more and more.

God bless you, MM, and thank you for allowing me to share my experiences.
 
WOW.... and WOW.... My heart is deeply moved by this thread.

Both of you have expressed very real problems within the CHURCH leadership. MM... you have outlined the topic... and laid down the problem... and Bob... you have answered with humility and great wisdom. I tell you the truth... If I was in your area... I would absolutely attend your fellowship due to your humility and heart to please God. As one of your flock... I would invest in deep prayer and fasting for you and the elders of your fellowship ( as I believe that would be one of my roles and responsibilities ). I would also further submit myself under your authority. THIS is how I see that things "ought" to be. I'm not sure if this happens in this day and age... as it seems that so many simply go to church with the EXPECTATION of being entertained and served without the thought of SERVING.

To take this even farther back.... I believe the first problem in finding good leadership begins with how boys are being raised in this day and age. We are deeply lacking good FATHERS.... and that has to be the starting point. It takes a mother and a father to raise children. We are living in a society that I would dare to say is probably at a majority of single parents. If not single parents... dysfunctional homes seem to be the norm. I have no idea what the statistics are... and I have quite honestly not done any research on this... My comment is simply based on observation of families in general.

I have attended only two churches outside of the Catholic church. Both were non-denominational... and both were ( I feel ) in severe error on how they attained their titles. The first church... the pastor was a converted Jew and most gifted with teaching... however... he lacked deeply and almost entirely in representing the Father's heart. He was a millionaire and although humble... he simply lacked the ability to shepherd a flock. To me... this would have been acceptable IF his lack of ability to be a shepherd would have been addressed and covered by having another elder in place to represent this important part of the church. That is how I view it.

Every pastor who is called to oversee a Church brings assets and weaknesses. Some cannot manage a time schedule which is vital in managing and caring for God's Church. Some cannot keep a check and balance. Some struggle with leading a Bible study or delivering a sermon. The list is long. This is why a pastor must discern in expanding other leaders with the gift set to help the various ministries.

Humility or lack there of seems to be a REAL problem in ministry... and I guess this is another area that needs deep care and attention is keeping our leaders accountable and humble. I think a large problem is that leaders often FEEL themselves to be ABOVE the law so to speak. The power seems to swallow them and they lose all sense of honest self-reflection. They refuse to be challenged and/or questioned.

How many church scandals have we seen explode in the public eye revolving around sexual sins committed by church leaders???
As well... the concerns of abuse of leadership via arrogance and disrespectful attitudes that don't seem to get challenged or dealt with.

I think the biggest problem is that many of the modern day churches are being run as organizations... when in all truth.... Christ's church is an organism. The church is a living body. It is meant to function accordingly. And God's design is that each member has specific giftings in order to function as a HEALTHY WHOLE when put together.
 
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WOW.... and WOW.... My heart is deeply moved by this thread.

Both of you have expressed very real problems within the CHURCH leadership. MM... you have outlined the topic... and laid down the problem... and Bob... you have answered with humility and great wisdom. I tell you the truth... If I was in your area... I would absolutely attend your fellowship due to your humility and heart to please God. As one of your flock... I would invest in deep prayer and fasting for you and the elders of your fellowship ( as I believe that would be one of my roles and responsibilities ). I would also further submit myself under your authority. THIS is how I see that things "ought" to be. I'm not sure if this happens in this day and age... as it seems that so many simply go to church with the EXPECTATION of being entertained and served without the thought of SERVING.

To take this even farther back.... I believe the first problem in finding good leadership begins with how boys are being raised in this day and age. We are deeply lacking good FATHERS.... and that has to be the starting point. It takes a mother and a father to raise children. We are living in a society that I would dare to say is probably at a majority of single parents. If not single parents... dysfunctional homes seem to be the norm. I have no idea what the statistics are... and I have quite honestly not done any research on this... My comment is simply based on observation of families in general.

I have attended only two churches outside of the Catholic church. Both were non-denominational... and both were ( I feel ) in severe error on how they attained their titles. The first church... the pastor was a converted Jew and most gifted with teaching... however... he lacked deeply and almost entirely in representing the Father's heart. He was a millionaire and although humble... he simply lacked the ability to shepherd a flock. To me... this would have been acceptable IF his lack of ability to be a shepherd would have been addressed and covered by having another elder in place to represent this important part of the church. That is how I view it.



Humility or lack there of seems to be a REAL problem in ministry... and I guess this is another area that needs deep care and attention is keeping our leaders accountable and humble. I think a large problem is that leaders often FEEL themselves to be ABOVE the law so to speak. The power seems to swallow them and they lose all sense of honest self-reflection. They refuse to be challenged and/or questioned.

How many church scandals have we seen explode in the public eye revolving around sexual sins committed by church leaders???
As well... the concerns of abuse of leadership via arrogance and disrespectful attitudes that don't seem to get challenged or dealt with.

I think the biggest problem is that many of the modern day churches are being run as organizations... when in all truth.... Christ's church is an organism. The church is a living body. It is meant to function accordingly. And God's design is that each member has specific giftings in order to function as a HEALTHY WHOLE when put together.

Hello In Awe of Him;

We appreciate your heart felt compassion for the Church and it's leaders. Yes, for many boys, father absence existed in their homes. God still uses many of these boys to become men of God, if not in the pastoral ministry but in many, many other areas of service to Him and others.


A problem with many Church pastors, elders, deacons, bible teachers, is the discontinued discipline of learning. They feel they made it, or mastered their calling, and this can become dangerous. Serving God is a lifelong process of spiritual investment in the gifts along with wisdom, discernment and spiritual maturity that He alone entrusts us.

As Musicmaster shared, "It didn't occur to him in the least what a failure he was as a man who SHOULD be functioning under the Headship of Christ above all else, and raising up saints who would grow and mature toward the fullness of the stature of Christ."

Amen, MM, well said.

God bless you, sister, and thank you for sharing.
Bob
 
The only reason everything doesn't fall into total chaos is because of the presence of the Church, which is NOT represented by the multitudes of institutional, religious organizations, but rather is the people who are attaining unto the fullness of the stature of Christ through the sanctifying power of Christ in each life. That is a journey embarked upon ONLY by those who are born again.

Some may ask how it is that the Church, not "churches," keep things from sinking into chaos. To that I would point again to scripture:

Matthew 16:18 And I say also unto thee, That thou art Peter, and upon this rock I will build my church; and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.

Overlooking the intellectual dishonesty behind the idea that Jesus was allegedly speaking of a mere man upon whom the Church would be built, we can understand from this that the Church has been empowered in a way that is never spoken of in relation to Israel. In the Church, as an Israeli, I am a part of something far more powerful than the nation from which I hale, even though the Lord is not at all finished with us Israelis.

The Lord holding to His promises to our forefather Abraham isn't about us, but about the Lord's own Name sake. It's all about Christ, first and foremost, both with the Church and with Israel. It is to that end I lift up my arms in praise unto the Lord!

So, where it's true that "churches" have failed miserably, the Church has not. The gates of Hell are still being assaulted and pushed wide open to let out those precious souls who lift up their eyes unto the Lord for the salvation that only He can perform. I therefore inject into the conversation the clarification that when famous preachers yell and scream about the failure of the church, I point the clarifying finger at the small "c", which is only one of many weapons in the hands of the Church (capital "C").

See the difference?

MM
 
So, where it's true that "churches" have failed miserably, the Church has not. The gates of Hell are still being assaulted and pushed wide open to let out those precious souls who lift up their eyes unto the Lord for the salvation that only He can perform. I therefore inject into the conversation the clarification that when famous preachers yell and scream about the failure of the church, I point the clarifying finger at the small "c", which is only one of many weapons in the hands of the Church (capital "C").
WOW and WOW.... BRILLIANT and this reads as a wonderful conclusion to this discussion. I don't think there is anything that can be added.
Once again.... the little black sheep is DEEPLY moved and filled with JOY to overflowing.
 
As a parallel,, when we look at unspiritual realities, there are spiritual realities that are a blessing and others that are deadly and filled with potholes...and sometimes an unforeseen along a precipice.

Traversing the peaks of blessing and the valleys of danger and death, it is in those places that we find people in all walks of life. In this milieu of variants lived in this life, we become more and more dependent upon the Lord in how to minister to those who need clarity because of walking blindly without realizing it.

Sometimes what we speak is like seed that falls on fertile soil, sometimes on shallow soil and sometimes on rocky surfaces. What's important to understand in all this is that we cannot take to ourselves the blame for the type of surface others have adopted for the terrain of their souls. Each individual is responsible for what they choose to believe and how they choose to walk through this life. Love for others is the one force over which there is no power in this world or in the demonic kingdom that can destroy it when the origin is the Lord loving others through us.

 
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