The greatest commandment, is to love the Lord God with all your heart and soul and the second is like this one, to love your neighbor as yourself. Upon these two commandments hang the whole law and the prophets. If you are ignoring these two to argue a minor point, all your arguements are invalid. We are commanded to love one another just as we have been loved. I am not holier than anyone, arguably the biggest sinner on this forum. If God in his generous mercy has loved and forgiven me, can we not be equally generous and love and forgive each other? That doesn't mean we all have to agree on everything but we can disagree with respect and love for each other. I do not always agree with my son but I always love and respect him.