The general conception is that at the fist resurrection the heavens will open up, glory shall shine abroad and we shall all run to meet Him in the air, But scripture says it is a secret catching away and only a few will see it. The question is 'am I ready?' Am I ready now? This minute am I ready to drop everything and go meet Him, or will I look back as Lot's wife did? A person might say 'If the dead in Christ shall rise and I see the saints I'll be ready.' Jesus said though one raise from the dead they will not believe/receive it. So we can't bank on some cataclysmic event to make us ready we must be ready now and by God's grace all things are possible. So let us not despise the chastening of the Lord for by it the bride has made herself ready, putting on the Word and counting everything else as dung in comparison.