The very fact that you have lawsuits among yourselves
is already a defeat for you. Why not rather be wronged?
Why not rather be cheated?
1 Corinthians 6:7

The best sort of revenge is not to be like the person
who did the injury.
Love your post it seems so relevant. It reminds me of a hymn that I pray to live up to.
Make me a Channrl of Thy Peace
(Written ny Christopher West)

Make me a channel of Thy peace
Where there is hatred let me bring Thy love;
Where there is injury, Your pardon, Lord
And where there's doubt, true faith in you.