Yes the problem is with "I" That's you guys boast in "I" would never lie to do Gods Will... Love is about putting others before yourself and your own religious desires to have your own righteousness.You see the problem is with the "I". that person is supposed to be dead, not alive.
Php 3:9 ¶ and be found in Him, not having my own righteousness, which is from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ, the righteousness which is from God by faith;