Your PERFECT Partner?

Just for fun.
Please describe the attributes or characteristics of what you think is your perfect partner.

I do not know who is married,engaged ( except Musicmaster is about to be married,conrats) nor do I know your status. Therefore this may be a bust .

You may have found your perfect one and have lived a long full life together. Congrats to you as well.

On another site,a man wrote a post requesting help in finding a shy,ect.ect woman to marry.....lol poor sap.

However some of us are not so blessed !
 
He MUST love the Lord as much as myself and MUST always put him first.
He MUST have the same interest as myself.
He is to be a touchy feely person, contact with ppl is important!
He MUST be genuine and will always be himself,regardless.
 
I'm going to be honest with you Via.
I've fallen into true love only once.....unfortunately he was someone else's ( for reference we did not sin,and I quickly left that state) and madly and deeply with my 2 children. Their birth taught me true,unconditional love!
 
I'm going to be honest with you Via.
I've fallen into true love only once.....unfortunately he was someone else's ( for reference we did not sin,and I quickly left that state) and madly and deeply with my 2 children. Their birth taught me true,unconditional love!
It happens.
I’ve lost count the amount of times I’ve fallen for others, ( even married ones, but wouldn’t dream of going there haha) it’s an everyday occurrence lol.


I think it’s an honour to be in the presence of a godly men without any kind of obsession or distractions.
 
Just for fun.
Please describe the attributes or characteristics of what you think is your perfect partner...
Thanks to God, I had the perfect partner, in a woman called Mira. As a partnership we both shared similar attributes and characteristics in regards to the Truth. Two people willing challenge each other to be truthful to the core. Meaning, that we both are willing to face our own vulnerability and exposure of our false-self (ego). Whenever we felt vulnerable or fear, the partner would ask what we were afraid of. This challenged each other to risk being vulnerable to negative judgement _ which never came. Instead, faith and love grew for each other from our truth.

My relationship with Mira was both terrifying for my ego, and blissful for me inner authentic being and soul. The relationship for our egos was like going to a funeral, but for our beings it was like going to a wedding.

During the first five years of our relationship we both were truth seekers, without knowing what that entailed in a relationship. Then things changed quite suddenly when we started to practicing the way, the truth, and the life. Everything changed, opposing our old ways. We never expected anything from each other. Everyday was like the gift of falling in love all over again. The end of everyday was like being blessed, with gratitude, for experiencing both human ego death and spiritual being life from truth together. The last ten years of being together was like a chalice overflowing of bubbly living water.

I have been live alone in solitude for the last ten years now, and I don't miss having a partner. The truth, love and faith of it all still overflows within me. I have no need or want in that regard.
 
Thanks to God, I had the perfect partner, in a woman called Mira. As a partnership we both shared similar attributes and characteristics in regards to the Truth. Two people willing challenge each other to be truthful to the core. Meaning, that we both are willing to face our own vulnerability and exposure of our false-self (ego). Whenever we felt vulnerable or fear, the partner would ask what we were afraid of. This challenged each other to risk being vulnerable to negative judgement _ which never came. Instead, faith and love grew for each other from our truth.

My relationship with Mira was both terrifying for my ego, and blissful for me inner authentic being and soul. The relationship for our egos was like going to a funeral, but for our beings it was like going to a wedding.

During the first five years of our relationship we both were truth seekers, without knowing what that entailed in a relationship. Then things changed quite suddenly when we started to practicing the way, the truth, and the life. Everything changed, opposing our old ways. We never expected anything from each other. Everyday was like the gift of falling in love all over again. The end of everyday was like being blessed, with gratitude, for experiencing both human ego death and spiritual being life from truth together. The last ten years of being together was like a chalice overflowing of bubbly living water.

I have been live alone in solitude for the last ten years now, and I don't miss having a partner. The truth, love and faith of it all still overflows within me. I have no need or want in that regard.
That sounds like a script from a great movie that just hasn't been made yet...
thanks for sharing.
 
I think a list is unimportant because when I found my hubby, a LOT of things about him were NOT on my list, but were things I love and didn't know I would love till I met him. He doesn't even LOOK like what I thought I wanted but he unlocked an unknown attraction for his type within me. LOL 😁 Plus it's not just his good looks/physical attributes but mostly his personality and energy/aura that can't be defined that attracted me to him. When I first saw him, there was just something about him that I felt was special. 😍
I would say keep an open mind because you never know. What looks good on paper doesn't always translate the same in real life.
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I am married to the perfect partner for me.

That does not mean she is a perfect woman. It does not mean we always see eye to eye. Just that each of us is better together than we would be apart.

Before I met my wife, I was briefly engaged to another young lady. That did not work out, but I know that if we had gotten maried, we would have grown in that relationship under the Lord's guidance and become the perfect spouse of each other.
 
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