So my boyfriend offered to let me stay with him .... I see so many pros and cons with this.
If I go, one, me and him will finally be together. Two, I can finally save because here with my mom....ive been on my job 7 months and only have 80 bucks in my savings and my mom still needs more...not only that my brother works and he keeps his money to himself even though he gets paid more. My dad stayed out of work for a while ....I gave my mom everything I have from both my jobs and we still have to move... So its like it didnt matter anyway...because I keep helping my mom..my car isnt insured and I'm afraid of it being towed away. Third, ill be able to save.
Now the cons; I hate going into a new place with absolutely nothing... I would have to start from ground zero with jobs and everything... But his family is welcoming... And I just hate being a burden..even if its for 2 seconds..I hate it..and I hate depending on people..
Ive prayed and I'm waiting for an answer...all I can do now is just use common sense to guide me..
All advice is welcomed.
If I go, one, me and him will finally be together. Two, I can finally save because here with my mom....ive been on my job 7 months and only have 80 bucks in my savings and my mom still needs more...not only that my brother works and he keeps his money to himself even though he gets paid more. My dad stayed out of work for a while ....I gave my mom everything I have from both my jobs and we still have to move... So its like it didnt matter anyway...because I keep helping my mom..my car isnt insured and I'm afraid of it being towed away. Third, ill be able to save.
Now the cons; I hate going into a new place with absolutely nothing... I would have to start from ground zero with jobs and everything... But his family is welcoming... And I just hate being a burden..even if its for 2 seconds..I hate it..and I hate depending on people..
Ive prayed and I'm waiting for an answer...all I can do now is just use common sense to guide me..
All advice is welcomed.