thank you guys.. thanks for your explainations. Yes i should ask myself why do i get drunk and my answer is just because im addict to alcohol and it makes me feel good. I know Its a bad thing to do because im just showing to other people that im not a true Christian that im not doing things what God want me to do. But the problem is how can i stop it. All of my friends are drunkard thats why im now drunkard too. Should i avoid them? because everytime we hang out we are always drunk when we go back home..
This is going to sound harsh, but it is said in love, so please try to accept it in that spirit.
You need to do two things. Firstly, you need to make a choice. You know that once you start to drink, you have no control over how much you drink. Therefore, you have to choose whether you want to keep getting drunk, and accept all the consequences that come with that (health, social and potentially legal), or whether you want to turn your life around, and remain sober. If it is the latter, then you need to make a commitment to yourself - and, if possible, to someone else who will hold you accountable - to do just that.
Secondly, you need to stop making excuses. You might get drunk when you are with your friends, but I seriously doubt that they hold you down and pour the alcohol down your throat - and unless they do, you are the one who is choosing to drink. You need to acknowledge that choice, and to take responsibility for your own life. If your choice is not to drink, then you need to make that clear to your friends. If they can't hang out with you without drink, then my guess is that they were not very good friends to start off with.
You need to make some new friends, even if the old ones don't drop out of the picture. Do you go to church? If you don't, finding a good church where the Word is preached and Jesus is honoured would be a good place to start. Then you can make friends from church, who will not lead you back into your drinking lifestyle.
The ball is in your court. If you choose to break free of the grog, I'm sure you will find many people who will be willing to stand by you and support and encourage you. If you choose to remain on the path you are on, there is not a person on earth who can change for you.
blessings,
Lynn