May the Lord give you wisdom in your ways....
The only troubling thing is what is meant here? If it were me and you offered to put me up for the weekend, I would naturally assume that you would be sleeping in your own bed and I would either have a guest room or the sofa...maybe a sleeping bag in the bath tub To say he doesn't care where you sleep sounds to me like either he thinks you are going to give up your bed for him or he is keeping his options optimistically open. Did you say that underlined bit properly?I don't know how this works and I don't want to put the blame on him. As a "spiritual leader" is he supposed to put his foot down and say "no, I'm getting a hotel?" He said he doesn't care where I sleep so long as I'm comfortable.
The only troubling thing is what is meant here? If it were me and you offered to put me up for the weekend, I would naturally assume that you would be sleeping in your own bed and I would either have a guest room or the sofa...maybe a sleeping bag in the bath tub To say he doesn't care where you sleep sounds to me like either he thinks you are going to give up your bed for him or he is keeping his options optimistically open. Did you say that underlined bit properly?
I would/might say "I don't care where I sleep as long as I'm comfortable" or if I was being optimistic, I might say "I don't care where I sleep as long as you're comfortable with that". So that seems to be a bit unclear.
Tink.....I love you sis...BUT......
If I were your caring older brother sitting across the table from you-I would reach over and smack ya!
Still love ya though......
Tink.....I love you sis...BUT......
If I were your caring older brother sitting across the table from you-I would reach over and smack ya!
Still love ya though......
Hi Tink, (hugs} now you have been thoroughly reprimanded.
This whole 'online dating thing is totally new to me.....am I really that old? It seems to me that no matter how adept at texting you two are, you are not going to really size each other up until you meet. Body language is so much a part of human communication, and smilies don't/can't replace that fully.
My 2 cents says that as long as you will be perfectly safe in meeting with him and housing him you should give each other the opportunity to evaluate the other in a real life encounter. who knows, after a face to face, he might feel that you are not up to spec and be wishing he had gone to another state. NBLIB.
My advice...just don't build up your expectations too high, and take things nice and slow.
The only troubling thing is what is meant here? If it were me and you offered to put me up for the weekend, I would naturally assume that you would be sleeping in your own bed and I would either have a guest room or the sofa...maybe a sleeping bag in the bath tub To say he doesn't care where you sleep sounds to me like either he thinks you are going to give up your bed for him or he is keeping his options optimistically open. Did you say that underlined bit properly?
I would/might say "I don't care where I sleep as long as I'm comfortable" or if I was being optimistic, I might say "I don't care where I sleep as long as you're comfortable with that". So that seems to be a bit unclear.