What do you say to people who terminally ill to prepare them for physical death?
Death and Dying
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Hello Mabel Lean;
You ask a great question. This is where our study as disciples equips and enables us what to say at that moment.
For the dying believer I believe they have grown in faith, knowledge and application. But in their terminal illness it’s a moment when being there in Love by their side, preparation, encouragement and readiness soon to be with our God for all eternity.
For the unbeliever who is shuddering at the thought of death is just as important to be there in Love by their side, offer them the hope that they can be forgiven and be given the opportunity to know Jesus as their Lord and Savior for all eternity.
This is a discussion that cannot be said in one post so I’m hoping this will open other’s thoughts.
Mabel Lean, what do you share with those who are terminally ill and prepare them for physical death?
God bless you.
Bob
You ask a great question. This is where our study as disciples equips and enables us what to say at that moment.
For the dying believer I believe they have grown in faith, knowledge and application. But in their terminal illness it’s a moment when being there in Love by their side, preparation, encouragement and readiness soon to be with our God for all eternity.
For the unbeliever who is shuddering at the thought of death is just as important to be there in Love by their side, offer them the hope that they can be forgiven and be given the opportunity to know Jesus as their Lord and Savior for all eternity.
This is a discussion that cannot be said in one post so I’m hoping this will open other’s thoughts.
Mabel Lean, what do you share with those who are terminally ill and prepare them for physical death?
God bless you.
Bob
I pray with then. Remind them how God is there with them, loves them, and how faithful Jesus is.
Talk of hope and confessing all sins and knowing they are forgiven through the death of Jesus. How they will rest in peace.
Talk of hope and confessing all sins and knowing they are forgiven through the death of Jesus. How they will rest in peace.
When I was growing up, we had a table in the vestibule where we laid out our church's missionary books. They were written by our denomination's missionaries, and we were encouraged to read them. (After reading one, we would sign our name on the inside cover.) I was amazed to read how open these people in other lands were to hearing the gospel. (Usually, there was only one person who would object, and it was the tribe's witch doctor.) But, I marveled at how open most of the people were, and it wasn't until I got older that I figured out why folks here at home are so closed: They're already predisposed to reject the gospel. They've already heard the message and decided to reject it. I mention this because I think it would be ineffective to just share John 3:16 with someone facing death because they've probably already associated it with "religious nut jobs."
I've witnessed to my neighbor a couple of times and he always makes a joke. However, he's 84 years old now, and he very well might be on a death bed soon. If and when that time comes, I am going to pray very solemnly, and ask God to use me. What ever I end of saying, it will be tailored for him exclusively.
When Jesus said to store up treasures in Heaven, do you suppose he meant bring souls to Him? Imagine getting to Heaven and discovering that because of you, there are a number of people who made it there, too.
I've witnessed to my neighbor a couple of times and he always makes a joke. However, he's 84 years old now, and he very well might be on a death bed soon. If and when that time comes, I am going to pray very solemnly, and ask God to use me. What ever I end of saying, it will be tailored for him exclusively.
When Jesus said to store up treasures in Heaven, do you suppose he meant bring souls to Him? Imagine getting to Heaven and discovering that because of you, there are a number of people who made it there, too.
My beloveds family and friends are in end stage illnesses as am I.
We fervently pray for one another for healing lifting each other up to I AM The Father in prayer in the Name of The Son Jesus Christ IESOUS CHRISTOS I AM for 100 % Healing and Angels of Protection. We ask for pain alleviation.
Just wondered the thoughts of those of you mature Followers what you say and do for those facing the last phases of life on this side of The Veil.
Serving I AM with you,
~ Mabe
We fervently pray for one another for healing lifting each other up to I AM The Father in prayer in the Name of The Son Jesus Christ IESOUS CHRISTOS I AM for 100 % Healing and Angels of Protection. We ask for pain alleviation.
Just wondered the thoughts of those of you mature Followers what you say and do for those facing the last phases of life on this side of The Veil.
Serving I AM with you,
~ Mabe
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This thread should be invaluable as so many post COVID betrayal are now end stage.
What can we the followers of I AM do to ease their transition?
We must encircle one another in fellowship now.
What can we the followers of I AM do to ease their transition?
We must encircle one another in fellowship now.
A few years ago I had an illness that took me right up to death's door, to the point that I was literally expecting each breath to be my last. At that time I found comfort is simply accepting God's will. "Thy will be done", I kept silently praying.
Ultimately that wasn't my last day, praise God. The lesson I would advise is to simply remind yourself and others that everything - your life and ultimately death - is in God's hands and to trust in Him.
I pray that those suffering terminal illness learn to accept with grace the gifts of the Lord and to trust in His will above all else. Know that I am praying for you.
Thank you learning to let go.
One of the cardiologists I know spoke of “surrender.” Still trying to get a * complete * handle on this.
He said when his mother was stage 4 cancer his father, her caregiver, became a better person in so doing. One feels guilty being a burden to the caregiver..
Ready indeed and looking forward to seeing I AM. There is a line in one of the hymns I play of those going each night “I Bow My Knees” -
… But I said, Timothy
"I want to see Jesus,
Cause He's the One who died for me."
…
It’s the how one passes that can disturb peace.
Will there be great pain or will one peacefully be taken in our sleep as GOD stops our heart?
One of the cardiologists I know spoke of “surrender.” Still trying to get a * complete * handle on this.
He said when his mother was stage 4 cancer his father, her caregiver, became a better person in so doing. One feels guilty being a burden to the caregiver..
Ready indeed and looking forward to seeing I AM. There is a line in one of the hymns I play of those going each night “I Bow My Knees” -
… But I said, Timothy
"I want to see Jesus,
Cause He's the One who died for me."
…
It’s the how one passes that can disturb peace.
Will there be great pain or will one peacefully be taken in our sleep as GOD stops our heart?
The above article is TOO PRECIOUS and PROFOUND to remain as simply an URL to press.
Completely surrendering to God’s will when facing a terminal illness involves trusting in His sovereignty and accepting the natural course of life and death, even in the midst of suffering. This surrender is not passive resignation but an active, faith-filled submission to God’s plan, recognizing that life and death are in His hands. The Bible affirms that God is an ever-present help in trouble and that He will never leave His children, providing strength and peace through the Holy Spirit during trials. For Christians, this act of surrender is seen as a profound expression of faith, reflecting the example of Jesus in Gethsemane, who prayed, “Not my will, but Yours be done”.
Surrendering to God’s will does not require enduring unnecessary suffering or rejecting medical care. It is consistent with making wise, thoughtful decisions about end-of-life care, such as choosing to forgo extraordinary life-sustaining treatments when death is imminent, as long as the intention is not to hasten death but to avoid prolonging the dying process unnecessarily. This approach is distinct from euthanasia or assisted dying, which are considered biblically unacceptable as they involve human intervention to end life, contrary to the belief that only God has authority over life and death.
Many believers find deep peace and purpose in surrendering to God’s will, even when the prognosis is grim. This surrender allows individuals to focus on spiritual growth, reconciliation with loved ones, and sharing their faith, knowing that their suffering can serve a greater purpose in God’s redemptive plan. As one person shared, surrendering to God’s will during terminal illness brought a profound sense of peace, love, and trust, even amid grief. The promise of eternal life and the assurance that “to die is gain” (Philippians 1:21) provide hope and comfort, transforming the fear of death into a peaceful transition into God’s presence.
Ultimately, surrendering to God’s will is not about controlling outcomes but about trusting that His plan is good, even when it is not fully understood. It is an act of humility and faith, acknowledging that God is sovereign over all things, including life and death, and that His love and grace are sufficient in every trial.
Completely surrendering to God’s will when facing a terminal illness involves trusting in His sovereignty and accepting the natural course of life and death, even in the midst of suffering. This surrender is not passive resignation but an active, faith-filled submission to God’s plan, recognizing that life and death are in His hands. The Bible affirms that God is an ever-present help in trouble and that He will never leave His children, providing strength and peace through the Holy Spirit during trials. For Christians, this act of surrender is seen as a profound expression of faith, reflecting the example of Jesus in Gethsemane, who prayed, “Not my will, but Yours be done”.
Surrendering to God’s will does not require enduring unnecessary suffering or rejecting medical care. It is consistent with making wise, thoughtful decisions about end-of-life care, such as choosing to forgo extraordinary life-sustaining treatments when death is imminent, as long as the intention is not to hasten death but to avoid prolonging the dying process unnecessarily. This approach is distinct from euthanasia or assisted dying, which are considered biblically unacceptable as they involve human intervention to end life, contrary to the belief that only God has authority over life and death.
Many believers find deep peace and purpose in surrendering to God’s will, even when the prognosis is grim. This surrender allows individuals to focus on spiritual growth, reconciliation with loved ones, and sharing their faith, knowing that their suffering can serve a greater purpose in God’s redemptive plan. As one person shared, surrendering to God’s will during terminal illness brought a profound sense of peace, love, and trust, even amid grief. The promise of eternal life and the assurance that “to die is gain” (Philippians 1:21) provide hope and comfort, transforming the fear of death into a peaceful transition into God’s presence.
Ultimately, surrendering to God’s will is not about controlling outcomes but about trusting that His plan is good, even when it is not fully understood. It is an act of humility and faith, acknowledging that God is sovereign over all things, including life and death, and that His love and grace are sufficient in every trial.
Mabel Lean ... I am profoundly humbled and feel very honoured to have you as part of this fellowship at this time in your journey.
I agree this is a precious topic. It is rarely addressed in its complexness yet so vital to us all.
In going through the links here is an excellent article. Close to me are those in stage 4 cancer.
How Can I Serve The Dying by John Piper
Mabel are
It's hard for me to relate to those terminally sick or ill as I haven't spent a night in the hospital and am on no medications/prescriptions. (but you never know). It's a wonder we live as long as we do in this dilapidated tent. (only by God's grace).
Here is a passage guaranteed to raise the dead...
John 11:25-26 KJV
Jesus said unto her, I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live: [26] And whosoever liveth and believeth in me shall never die. Believest thou this?
Are your family and friends saved? Perhaps prayer in this direction would do wonders.
It's hard for me to relate to those terminally sick or ill as I haven't spent a night in the hospital and am on no medications/prescriptions. (but you never know). It's a wonder we live as long as we do in this dilapidated tent. (only by God's grace).
Here is a passage guaranteed to raise the dead...
John 11:25-26 KJV
Jesus said unto her, I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live: [26] And whosoever liveth and believeth in me shall never die. Believest thou this?