Is it bad to give God ultimatums during prayer? For example, "God give me a sign on whether or not I should take this job. If you do not give me a sign, I will assume you want me to take the job. You have 3 days to respond. In Jesus name Amen!"
You catch more honey with flies than vinegar...
All prayers are answered. Sometime YES sometimes NO sometimes WAIT (aka silence). I don't think asking for a sign is bad, Gideon did, but living off of them only shows immaturity in Christ. As far as setting a deadline, it depends on the circumstances and humility. If you're under a time crunch, you can ASK for a speedy answer, but to DEMAND will only get the prayer ignored in my opinion. At the same time the thought of the widow at the door comes to mind, Luke 18. But let's look at this:
Luke 11:9 (KJV)
And I say unto you, Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you.
"Shall" is an imperative, so I don't see much in the way of conditions.
Luke 11:13 (KJV)
If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children: how much more shall [your] heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to them that ask him?
Hebrews 4:16 (KJV)
Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.
Here
boldly is:
- Original: παρῥησία
- Transliteration: Parrhesia
- Phonetic: par-rhay-see'-ah
- Definition:
1. freedom in speaking, unreservedness in speech
a. openly, frankly, i.e without concealment
b. without ambiguity or circumlocution
c. without the use of figures and comparisons
2. free and fearless confidence, cheerful courage, boldness, assurance
3. the deportment by which one becomes conspicuous or secures publicity
Matthew 11:12 (KJV)
And from the days of John the Baptist until now the kingdom of heaven suffereth violence, and the violent take it by force.
Luke 16:16 (KJV)
The law and the prophets [were] until John: since that time the kingdom of God is preached, and every man presseth into it.
What an interesting couple of verses. They stand out of the context that surrounded them. So I wonder:
Storm the gates of heaven...