Strange I never got any more notifications from this post. But it looks like whatever I was feeling was right. I was at the casino last night with some friends just hanging out and her house is like 5 minutes down from the casino so on the way home I told my friend to make a quick stop at her apartment. I pull up and her car is no where to be seen. Go in front of her house and the blinds have been redesigned and the doormat and everything is changed so shes gone now. Literally no way I can contact her ever again. Phone is still off. This sucks its gonna be in the back of my head forever now. Only options I can think of is her moving back in with the ex husband which she dreads so bad or else she wouldnt work full time job just to support herself and get away from him. Or she had to quit her job and move in with her grandparents who live an hour away. Nothing else I can think of. I knew she wouldnt be able to manage without me ... every week I had to step in and help ... there was no way she could have done it alone.