Awww, you just got here! I too have enjoyed your posts. We have members from many backgrounds, many of whom believe things with which I disagree. However, I know that the vast majority, if not all, of those who post regularly love God with all their hearts and love their brothers and sisters. While I enjoy a friendly discussion on our differences, I think we try hard here to focus on what we agree on and fellowship on that basis. Which is not the same as being wishy-washy, it's just recognizing that on many issues (nature and chronology of the end times, legitimacy and function of charismata in the modern church, the Arminianism vs. Calvinism spectrum of salvation, to name just a very few) reasonable people have come to different conclusions. Few of us are even static on many of these issues, finding ourselves being persuaded by new information or arguments which modify our views. Again, this is not wishy-washiness, it's a process of pressing in to the truth and doing our best to know, love, serve, and obey God. If someone denies the deity of Christ, or faith as the basis of salvation, or the Atonement, for instance, we're talking a whole different ballgame.
I don't know if all those words above are helpful to you or not; if not, no biggie, they didn't cost me anything and I can always make more words.

Let me just say that your presence here and the thoughts you have expressed have been valuable. They have made us think, have blessed us with their sentiment, have built up and encouraged us. I sincerely hope you will stay.