Good morning, YeshuaFan, LearningToLetGo and cocoa;
Most of us go back years and it's ok to have this discussion keeping in mind the Friendly Christian Forum. This can lead to productive constructiveness, meaning we learn more about people who truly love the Lord, those who love the Lord but may be misguided, or those who pretend to love the Lord with ulterior motives. I feel the members in this forum have seen it all in our zeal for the Lord.
I consider LearningToLetGo as a Corinthian, which is a good thing. He loves the Lord and remains inquisitive, especially many parts of the Bible that leave him sharing philosophical quotes (new quotes that I learn.) Does this mean I stay away from him? NO! Because I know our brother believes in Him but exercises his right to ask questions. I respond to him keeping in mind 2 Timothy 2:14-19. How he receives or reacts is up to him. But I also trust Jason won't throw darts or arrows back at me but simply make his comment, then take a step back. This kind of disposition is one that I want to emulate.
Why do we have to single out specific groups? Jesus knew very well the "groups," especially the Pharisees, Sadducees, etc...regardless Jesus loved on them as a whole without categorizing them.
Which brings us to the mix of Oneness, Pentecostals, Charismatics, whatever, in my circle and community of friends and acquaintances. When I talk with them, they are just men and women.
We attended a few Pentecostal services. I've witnessed Pentecostals who spoke in "spiritual tongues and got fidgety" during service. At the end they exclaimed that they had "such a wonderful experience with the Holy Spirit!" A week later I'll remind them and they totally forgot about it and went on with their lives. This is not what the Scriptures teaches regarding Spiritual tongues reference Acts 2:4, 1 Corinthians 12 and 14. I'll share the Gospel to them and if they stick to what they believe and will continue to do, I get out of God's way and let them go.
One family believes in "name it and claim it", another believe that all Christians have the prophecy of healing. One very close friend of 30 years claimed himself healed from type II diabetes and stopped taking insulin, pills and ate whatever he wanted. 4 years later he died because of neglect of organ failure from diabetes. Another family accumulated new cars, a home, and lots of goodies, in the name of Jesus, only to file bankruptcy.
Many Oneness Pentecostal Churches are Oneness / Unitarian, others are Trinitarian. Their doctrinal foundation leaves a lot of questions while remaining set in stone. So, how do we continue to coexist with our brothers and sisters who go to this Church but don't even realize which doctrine?
How about overall Protestantism and Catholicism, where most believe and worship the Trinity? We all have some knowledge of each other's denomination and can easily point them out. But are we taking the time in prayer, and how God can guide each one of us to love on each other?
I don't have the solution, but we can start by accepting in God's unconditional love for each of us and our desire to love one another, continuously. God's Love does break down the walls of indifference and God's guidance can bring us in one accord, in His time.
God bless you.
Bob