__________________________________How do you define love?
Sorry, Olivia, ...You were speaking to someone else.
__________________________________How do you define love?
Why is this person still allowed to preach his ungodly message?
Your whole perspective is focused on the physical realm. However the focus of Christianity is the spiritual realm. If you want to discuss that, I am willing. Let me know.love is unconditional and accepting. If someone done something horrible, I will still love that person. If they are gay, I will still encourage them to be gay. I care for their happiness. If being gay for them makes them happy, let them be gay. Being gay/lesbian doesn't hurt anyone.
Well, I have no other choice, it is either accept jesus as lord and saviour and not having gay/lesbian sexual urges, not having premarital sex (since it is sinning and to repent means to stop sinning which translates to "stop having premarital sex" which I will never stop having premarital sex because I want my lover to know how I feel about her before marriage), etc, or be in hell which I find infinitely more satisfying because if I do have a partner and my partner wants to have sex before marriage to show me that she loves me, and I will be happy to have sex with her if I'm in love with her too. Wait, are you suggesting that I can go to heaven if the holy spirit is in me even though the holy spirit in me will indefinitely reject jesus as lord and saviour?
"I know you believe that good works SHOULD BE the basis, but it is not"
I agree with you. which is why I am saying I am going to hell just because I live a moral life here. If I believe that good works is the basis, I would be saying I would be going to heaven. if repents mean "accepting jesus as lord and saviour, and stop having sex before marriage, stop taking photographs of a gay/lesbian wedding because they needed a photographer", I will never repent if that is the case. I rather be who I am, rather than someone who wants me to be someone who I am not.
When I say, christians are against gay/lesbian, I am not talking about the marlboro individuals. What the marlboro individuals is doing is really messed up. The marlboro actively stops gay/lesbian from doing what they want to do. What I said was that the christian god is against actively doing homosexual urges, which is supposedly going against god (sin). and what I mean was like when a gay couple going to need to get married since they both love each other. They ask a christian photographer to take photographs of their wedding, the photographer refuses because he/she doesn't support gay marriage because their god doesn't like the sin of homosexual behaviour. That christian photographer will not actively stop the gay/lesbian but just not in their presense. That is what I don't like about God and also the reason why I never want to be in the same place as Him anyways.
"Not true…most Christians are not "against" anybody."
I know, Christians are against sinning, not the sinner. Acting on homosexual urges is a sin, having premartial sex is a sin. I will never stop having premarital sex (not repenting) because it is to show me and my partner love each other very much, or want to create children before marriage or just really horny.
"but if they die the first death (the separation of their soul from their body) without their sins being pardoned and atoned for, they will enter the judgment with sin."
I think they will find their way infinitely more satisfying (in their life and not being someone who they are not, even though the path that leads them will be hell) rather than accepting jesus as their lord and saviour.
There should be exceptions to the 10 commandments. It said "honor thy mother and father" or something. What if the parents gave the baby up to adopt and think poorly of the baby. How would the baby exactly "honor" his/her real parents? or do that commandment just means, just anyone who is willing to take care of that baby and love that baby. (other parents that want to adopt, and will take care of the baby), because I know that if I have stepparents, they will be considered my real parents because they are the one that raised me for who I am today, not the parents who gave me up for adoption. If you mean the parents who raise me for who I am, yes, I should honor them because they are the one that took me in, and raise me.
I do not know the forum rules. May be people are allowed to post these messages? Only Mods can comment
____________________________________________For whatever reason he decided to join this forum, we christians have the chance to give the truth of what christianity is about full stop and he has the opportunity to learn and discover the truth of christianity- what it means to be followers of Christ. At the end of the day we do the best we can to present the truth and if he doesn't accept that is his choice unfortunately. Ultimately he is responsible for whether he accepts Christ into his life or not.
Do you want to discuss this spiritually or not?I join this forum to see where I would go after I die. It seems I would be going to hell. even when I live a moral life.
________________________________________________I join this forum to see where I would go after I die. It seems I would be going to hell. even when I live a moral life.
You are not living a moral life though you think you are. Sex for instance is a beautiful thing God created for marriage between a man and a woman. It is holy , but has been defiled .I join this forum to see where I would go after I die. It seems I would be going to hell. even when I live a moral life.
I understand we sin and that is what make us sinners. in theory, if we all go to hell and pay for our punishment, wouldn't that make jesus free of needing to suffer for us? I feel so horrible about god paying my punishment for me. If I make a mistake, I should be the one to be punished, not anyone else. Even though my punishment for sinning is eternal punishment, it would make me feel a lot better to know that jesus won't be suffering for my sins. I don't want jesus to suffer for anyone's sin. If it is possible, I would be happy to double my punishment to let my girlfriend's soul go to heaven even though she doesn't believe in jesus. Is there a way to negotiate the punishment with the Lord? I want to be the one that will be paying for everyone's punishment so they don't need to suffer. Maybe the lord can make maximum punishment on me so Jesus and the rest (including nonbelievers) don't need to suffer from their sins. or since my family wants to go to hell for everyone's sin, couldn't that save at least one nonbeliever?
__________________________________________________Please do not "define" gay: tell me in scripture what is gay.
Gay...is not mentioned in scripture...homosexual is mentioned once and only once and a doctrine should not be formed based on a single scripture alone, that is bad hermeneutics...God's love and the extension of His grace is bigger than all our sins rolled into one...in fact He rolled them all into one and His name is Jesus.
1 Corinthians 6:9 - Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality,
Deut 22:5
“A woman shall not wear a man's garment, nor shall a man put on a woman's cloak, for whoever does these things is an abomination to the Lord your God.
Leviticus 20:13
If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall surely be put to death; their blood is upon them.
1 Timothy 1:9-11
Understanding this, that the law is not laid down for the just but for the lawless and disobedient, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for those who strike their fathers and mothers, for murderers, the sexually immoral, men who practice homosexuality, enslavers, liars, perjurers, and whatever else is contrary to sound doctrine, in accordance with the gospel of the glory of the blessed God with which I have been entrusted.
Sodomy is an abomination (and can be heteros or homos) and laying with a man as if he is a woman (to sodomize) is an abomination...so isn't having hetero sex before or outside of marriage (guilty as charged)...thank you Jesus for being my redeemer and my savior....over 30 years now faithfully with one woman.
Many Christians right now (including two of my daughters) are guilty of pre-marital sex...I know God loves them and pray He will extend the blood of Christ to cover them...if not I am good with that as I trust God and know whatever He decides is right, just, and good...