either or we are commanded to be ye not drunk in access of wine But filled with the spirit. being drunk were controlled by the alcohol. being filled with the spirit we are controlled by the spirit.. so those boasting of being filled with the spirit.. just how filled are they . filled by the spirit no room for any sin/flesh ....Or, the amount of obedience in the believer depends upon the working of the Holy Spirit?
Philippians 2:12-13 NKJV
Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling; [13] for it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure.
here is the rest of that scripture
19 Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord;
20 Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ;
21 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
the results of a spirit filled life . looks to me like we have room for improvement of what is leading us / controlling us.
and yes it is God/Christ in us we have just enough as we want or allow