Thank you...yes, I understand all of this, agree with it, and don't just look at it as an act of obedience...sorry I didn't mention that to begin with.
Hi, Life as we know it
There are things worth repeating, especially if they feed us how to love. It is wise to keep eating what feeds us to grow in love
About what water baptism is for > John the Baptist said, "that He should be revealed to Israel, therefore I came baptizing with water." (in John 1:31) So, being baptized can be for revealing Jesus to people . . . along with other reasons for baptism.
So, water baptism is a multi-tasking thing
I understand that when you truly repent, in your heart you already have gotten together with Jesus, because of how in your heart you have given yourself to Him. So, I understand that your repentance was your baptism into Jesus, spiritually.
But being baptized in water can be confessing Jesus before people. And Jesus does say, "'Therefore whoever confesses Me before men, him I will also confess before My Father who is in heaven.'" (Luke 10:32)
It does say we "were baptized into His death." (in Romans 6:3) And we know how the death of Jesus has so much to do with how Jesus gave His life for any and all people. So, being baptized into His death, to me, mainly means I have joined with Jesus in how He loves any and all people; therefore I have left my own life behind, in order to take on His love life. When I repented, then was when I started in this, in my heart, by committing to how Jesus wants us to live. So, I understand that repenting can be seen as being baptized from our way to His way of loving; but, of course, we are not perfect, right away, in this, but we grow.
And then in love we get baptized because we so appreciate all Jesus has done for us and we desire to show this to others.
So, baptism is mainly about how we become loving, like we have already shared here, as well as doing things that are obedient. "Let all that you do be done with love." (1 Corinthians 16:14)