Ask any Pastor, with all the different hats they have to wear. Being a child of God does not entitle us to a free pass from trials and struggles, but we are told we will never go through them alone. Praise be to God!
very true violet.the problem i have is i think im scared of women.and i need to talk to women with the same talk as men.but we seem to be interested in diffrent things so it is harder to relate.
Smellycat, my friend, if you have a problem with attraction to women, since you are married, we need to pray about this.
This is where lustful thoughts come in.
Please pray that God will remove both your interest in women and your fears too!
I'll be praying for you!
Bless you, Violet
SC, explain what you mean.
Our personalities are different as are our emotions.
Do you have trouble communicating to your wife?
Do you ask how someone is when you see them?


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Are the spirits different really? Or is it just the culture, genetics, and hormones? I know that science has never truely been able to quantify the reasons for all the differences, but look at it like this. Each gender is half of a whole. Your wife is the opposite to your half. Each woman out there is the half to someone else, as each man is a half to some woman. One of my favorite sayings: "We are each of us, angels with just one wing. Only by holding onto each other can we fly." It's a pretty fitting phrase that describes the differences of men and women. Nobody wants two left wings, any more than having two left hands would be useful.