I'm not trying to get hung up on scripture and I totally understand what you are saying Abdicate but what Jesus says in Matthew 23 verse 9 am I not to take that literally? If not what is Jesus saying there?
Maybe look it this way... it's an attitude of the heart and has to do with idiolizing a man (any person) above God. For we are all apart of the body of Christ now, with Christ as the head.
No distinction between male or female, jew or greek, slave or free. The Holy Spirit is our teacher, through godly men and women, which bears witness with the spirit within us. (1 John 2:27) ... So as long as your not calling someone else God's name, giving them credit for what God is doing through someone... you'll be ok to call someone father or teacher.
But as for you, the anointing (the sacred appointment, the unction) which you received from Him abides [permanently] in you; [so] then you have no need that anyone should instruct you. But just as His anointing teaches you concerning everything and is true and is no falsehood, so you must abide in (live in, never depart from) Him [being rooted in Him, knit to Him], just as [His anointing] has taught you [to do].
1 John 2:27 AMPC
http://bible.com/8/1jn.2.27.AMPC
Here is what Jesus said about the power that flowed through Him.....
John 14:10 (KJV)
10 Believest thou not that I am in the Father, and the Father in me? the words that I speak unto you I speak not of myself: but the Father that dwelleth in me, he doeth the works.
He gave all credit to The Father.. all glory to The Father.
The Father has given us dominion and authority to do His works, we should never take credit for what He does through us.
Blessings to you! Praying this helps