I haven't read the entire string but I did read the OP and the last three replies. While I'll admit that these last three are not vocally putting pressure on this poster to speak in tongues, there is that silent pressure there by not giving a full range of the available information. I do not speak in tongues but I can fool anyone into believing that I can, short of an interpreter of tongues.
I have even been offered instruction in the matter of speaking in tongues and I refused for the obvious reason. The God I serve, Yahweh, is the only God and there is nothing that He wills that I can ever refuse to do and if God wants me to glorify Him by speaking in tongues it is impossible for me not to do so. And as a Spirit filled and indwelt Christian I do not need anyone, a human, to help me do what God can't!
All of that being said there are a couple of very important matters that must enter into such a discussion;
..1. The Bible is the Bible that Jesus/God used in His earthly ministry some 2000 years ago.
..2. The very best Life Application Commentary ever written on the Bible is known as the New Testament.
..3. No single nor any group of scriptures can be brought into light without all of scripture shining it's light upon it or them.
..4. This is a big one and I'll refuse to reply to knee-jerk replies here, the Bible, from "In the beginning..." through the very last "Amen" of the Revelation to John is of one context!
Number 4 deserves comment. God/Jesus inspired the 40 or so penmen to write the Bible and the New Testament and the message from beginning to end is Salvation at and through the hands of God, it never changes and neither does God.
One more note: Paul spent three years in one on one study under the hand of Jesus. (See Philipians)
Now, since Jesus is the author (John 1:1-5) of the scriptures, everything has one flow. Then, since Paul did study under our Christ for three years in Asia Minor, His inspired words are every bit as valid as, even, Luke's book of the Acts of the Apostles.
The matter I present here for your edification is not limited to but is, certainly focused on in First Corinthians 12 and 14. In much the same manor as the Assemblies of God Churches are doing today the people of Corinth were lording it over one another because they had 'the' more important gift of the Spirit. Worthy of note is the structure of Paul's message to these Christians... chapter thirteen, the Love Chapter, falls right in the canter of these to numerical lists of the Gifts of the Spirit. I believe that it is also worthy of note that Paul placed Speaking in tongues so low on the list as well as commenting that the sign of tongues was a sign for the lost man to see, not for the Christian to lust after. (1Cor. 14:22)
Now, remember that the Love Chapter is in the middle of these two lists and if you are going to jump up and take a Dogmatic position on the matter you must consider, "Does this draw my brother closer to me or does it further divide the Church that Jesus wants unified around the basic truths of His Word?"