Think, if we did not have a choice in the matter than it was total useless and foolish for God to tell us choose either between life or death. I am not saved because God forced me to choose him, I choose him, and love him because he first loved me, and he revealed himself to me as he has to ALL men. I have already given the scripture that says, "the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to ALL men." Does that mean all men will be saved? Absolutely not, but they know God exists, and if anyone says they do not believe it, God calls that person a liar, because he has shown it to them. Only those who choose him will be saved . ALL men have been given the right to become a Son of God if they so choose. As it is written, "Light has come into this world but men loved darkness rather than light because their deeds are evil, but as many as received him, to them was gave the power to become a Son of God."