I think I tend to agree with you on most everything you said.
It concerns me because as you said, in the end it is all about God's word and what the Bible says~
So, wouldn't I be wrong to willingly sit under a woman preacher?
Shouldn't that be an important role for the older women to teach the younger, as the Bible instructs them to do?
I would however like to know just where the Old testament does come into play in Christianity. I personaly do not see anything wrong with a woman as a pastor.