I would probably agree with 4pt Calvinism like most Christians do.
Us driving our car to the aiport is one issue. Us flying in a plane from the airport is another separate issue. Jesus invites us all to the airport as He has purchased a plane of salvation for us.
I would like to discuss Calvinism with you but it is forbidden on this site. So we better agree to disagree. We do not completely disagree. I would agree with all you said above once we are in Christ. It is getting into Christ that we disagree with. I just can't swallow a belief that insinuates God is partial. Partiality is evil. It is impossible to spin it into good. Just ask the unlucky fella in hell that was never regenerated 

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What a terrible  thing  that has been wrought by the devil  that  because  of his serpents  creating havoc in the church and one must presume here in these forums also  that which Calvin taught cannot either be discussed  or considered  in any spiritual way .
So that the  result  has been that the ISM   like all other isms which do despite to the truth,  has won the field (if not the war) and the biblical principles which  he taught and upheld are not only  no longer taught  but in many it seems  no longer understood  in consequence  and like many other  things  adds to the reverse reformation  in which we are .
and by such means  great truths of God proven by scripture witnessed to by the Holy Spirit  are by degree and measure are removed and no longer taught . To the detriment   of the church and of every child of God.
Yet at the same time  the gross errors  proved beyond all reasonable doubt at the reformation  both by biblical argument  and the murderous reaction to the truth  are still held  to be true  and are by degree and measure slowly being insinuated and propagated  into the church and sadly accepted  by many by the same who now  have gone further in their error and claim infallibility  in them.
The only way to get 'into'  Christ  and THE  church  which is His body . Is to be baptised  by the Holy Spirit  and sealed by Him  into the body  of Christ.
For  by the Word of God   the Moabites were barred  from the kingdom of God forever . Nehamiah 13
Yet  Ruth  was a moabitess !
How then?
Because  she forsook her land  her kin and her gods  and said to her mother in law emphatically " your God will be my God  and your people  my people ......."
Moses  REFUSED (by faith) to be called the son of Pharoes daughter . But rather  CHOSE (by faith) to endure the afflictions of Gods people  than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a season" Hebrews.
God is not partial for he has declared that ALL  are sold  unto sin .that ALL  have sinned and have come short of the glory fo God .
and that  by Pauls  argument   proves wether you be a Jew or gentile there is  no difference  all have sinned and thus condemned .
and in another place says we were as all men by nature "children of disobedience " and children of wrath"
Those who  abuse scripture  and misuse it , misinterprate  put it out of joint  will do that and much more then with  the words of men even if they speak the truth .
Thus  if all have sinned  then all are guilty  and all condemned to be damned .
we are  all as an unclean thing . NONE  seeks after God etc etc etc etc etc etc .
The condemnation to all  then has none excluded.
For God so loved the world  then has none excluded also .
For that love of God is extended to all men .
The provision of that love is also  extended to all men and God has the capability of saving all by that provision.
The promise  however is to them that beleive God not to the ones who dont.
"If I be lifted up(on the cross) I will draw ALL  men unto me " Who then is excluded? If it says ALL.
"God is not willing that ANY  should perish  but that ALL should  come  to a knowledge fo the truth " Who then is excluded?
None.
Yet  men will not come to the light   for their deeds are evil. So says the scriptures.
You cannot  resist the iristable but if you do  you will brign destruction upon your own head .
You cannot deny the irrifutable .But to deny it  is to brign damnation to your own soul.
Whos fault is it then?
Not Gods .
His provision is for all His  power is for all and he draws all men unto Him.
But what sayeth the scripture?
"Ye do always  resist the Holy ghost"!
It truly is by the grace of God we are saved .
and it is not for  those who get saved to be so  busy  'celebrating' and thinking how wonderful they are that to forget  those still lost  and dead ,But are by the command of God "go and do likewise " and be HIS  witnesses and testify  of the hope that lieth with in them and of Gods  goodness .To all men .
In Jesus  Christ.
As usual then the devil  will take  the truth  and put it out of joint  out of context  and  speak half truths  and missapply the truth  so as to ensnare the people  of God  and cause them to sin.
in Christ
gerald