I can completely understand, Doreen. We have a 15 yr. old son and a 7 yr. old son. There are both blessings and challenges to trying to raise children with such an age gap but the good news is, God is able and in control! Surrendering our children to the complete control of the Lord is vital.Doreen said:Am a single mom of two daughters - Steffi is 14 and Lillian is 5 yrs old. boy do they create havoc - one a teenager and the other seems to be still going through the terrible 2's! mood swings and bad behavior! it's never boring!