Does God want me to be alone at this point in time?
i recently ended a relationship w/ someone as i knew the relationship was not going to help my relationship with God at all. I realize human relationships come in and out of people’s lives and I wanted to honor God in my relationships w/ other people, so as painful as it was, I had to break up with this person. I do not look down on this person, nor do I place the fault on him, however he is going to live his life one way and I need to live mine another. I recently met someone else who I thought would be a much better influence; however I’m already pretty sure this person doesn’t like me and is not interested in me at all. I just get the feeling. I’m just wondering does God want me 2 be alone? The whole reason I got involved with the 1st guy was because I was lonesome, I wanted a friend or at least someone to talk to. I literally have no friends in college, so I was so lonely. I’m so upset because I just wanted a friend, don’t really need a boyfriend, it would be nice, but it’s not the end all be all. I would be content with a good friend. I prayed about God sending me some real friends, I’m kind of hurt by all this, I’m trying to be strong and I feel guilty because I believe there is no love greater than God’s, but am I wrong to desire a relationship with someone, particularly a member of the opposing gender? Does that make my feelings sinful? I just wanted a good relationship in accordance w/ God’s word and I’m just sad and I also feel guilty.
i recently ended a relationship w/ someone as i knew the relationship was not going to help my relationship with God at all. I realize human relationships come in and out of people’s lives and I wanted to honor God in my relationships w/ other people, so as painful as it was, I had to break up with this person. I do not look down on this person, nor do I place the fault on him, however he is going to live his life one way and I need to live mine another. I recently met someone else who I thought would be a much better influence; however I’m already pretty sure this person doesn’t like me and is not interested in me at all. I just get the feeling. I’m just wondering does God want me 2 be alone? The whole reason I got involved with the 1st guy was because I was lonesome, I wanted a friend or at least someone to talk to. I literally have no friends in college, so I was so lonely. I’m so upset because I just wanted a friend, don’t really need a boyfriend, it would be nice, but it’s not the end all be all. I would be content with a good friend. I prayed about God sending me some real friends, I’m kind of hurt by all this, I’m trying to be strong and I feel guilty because I believe there is no love greater than God’s, but am I wrong to desire a relationship with someone, particularly a member of the opposing gender? Does that make my feelings sinful? I just wanted a good relationship in accordance w/ God’s word and I’m just sad and I also feel guilty.