I expect the greatest grief would come with unexpected loss.
My parents have now passed on from this life, and yes I miss them.
They both lived for a long time bedridden with no quality of life. Their deaths was in a way a blessing, but had they died suddenly 30-40 years ago I'm sure my grief would have been much more intense.
But the question is......had they been taken 30-40 years ago, would I still miss them? Would I still grieve their loss?....not knowable.
My parents have now passed on from this life, and yes I miss them.
They both lived for a long time bedridden with no quality of life. Their deaths was in a way a blessing, but had they died suddenly 30-40 years ago I'm sure my grief would have been much more intense.
But the question is......had they been taken 30-40 years ago, would I still miss them? Would I still grieve their loss?....not knowable.