Good morning, dear brothers and sisters,
I hope this morning finds you in peace and joy. Today, I would like to share a parable I recently read—it reminded me of the importance of patience and the weight our words can carry.
The Parable of Patience
There was once a young man with a bad temper. His father handed him a bag full of nails and told him to hammer a nail into the garden gate every time he lost his patience or argued with someone.
On the first day, the young man hammered 37 nails into the gate. Over the next few days, he learned to control himself, reducing the number of nails he had to hammer. Eventually, he realized that it was easier to control his temper than to keep driving nails into the gate.
Finally, the day came when he did not hammer a single nail. He went to his father and shared the good news. His father then gave him a new task—to pull out one nail from the gate for every day he remained patient.
In time, all the nails were removed. When the young man proudly told his father, the father took him to the gate and said:
"My son, you have done well, but look at the holes left behind. This gate will never be the same. When you argue with someone and say hurtful things, you leave wounds just like these. Just as our actions can harm others, so too can our words, sometimes cutting even deeper than a physical wound. You can stab a person with a knife and later remove it, but the wound remains. No matter how many times you ask for forgiveness, the scar will stay."
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This story on how careful we must be with our words, for they can leave lasting marks on the hearts of others. May we all strive to be patient, gentle, and mindful of what we say.
May the Lord bless and guide you today and always.
In Christ,
Yurii