okay, thanks for your detailed explanation. so basically, if I continue being good to human standard, I will just be in a place in hell. Okay, sounds good. If I live a good life to human standard and I go to hell, I wouldn't mind living in hell forever. What makes me happy is that the fact that I lived my life helping others and making others happy even though I will be tortured in hell forever. I wouldn't care about my soul being tortured, as long as I live my purpose. If I do have children in the future, and he/she becomes gay or have a really bad disease, I will fully support him/her no matter what. and I will die happy knowing I supported my possible children as much as I can.
"Now if you do not care or do not believe God and insist on being your own lord have at it...but please, I beg you (an ex-atheist who has broken all of the big ten and loved it in those days)...I beg you please (and I am going to start praying as soon as I post) do not encourage your babies in this foolish self lordship...or your wife...not if you claim to love them. Please"
you should really respect / understand how other people live. You will meet lots of different people with different religions. You don't need to agree with those religions but just be respectful and understanding. Please. What you are doing right now is the equivalent of a hindu person telling you not to eat beef anymore because it goes against his hinduism. Hindu prohibits people to eat beef because it is against the hindu god. My future children will decide what is best for them. You cannot make them not like something if they like it if that is good for human kind. Notice what I did. I know christians are against gay/lesbian, I am not forcing them to be gay or lesbian. I let them choose what they want to be. If they don't like the same sex, okay, me and that person can still be friends because we both understand each other.
I am not gay. I am straight but I am tolerant enough to accept gay people, not as lovers, but as friends. I will support them. If just their life style. for example, if your friends (nonchristian) like skateboarding, would you keep telling them to stop skateboarding because skateboarding is against god? I would like to think you would not tell them to stop their passion as long as they are good for human kind.
Being gay is both the genetic and the environment. There is actually some study done where if the 1st born is a male, and the 2nd born is a male, the 2nd born have 33% chances of being gay.
"The
fraternal birth order effect is the name given to the observation that the more older brothers a man has, the greater the probability is that he will have a homosexual orientation. The fraternal birth order effect is the strongest known predictor of sexual orientation, with each older brother increasing a man's odds of being gay by approximately 33%"
here is my source,
https://www.msu.edu/~breedsm/pdf/BogaertCommentary2006.pdf
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11534970?dopt=Abstract
Okay, since I feel strongly about accepting gay/lesbian people, and having premarital sex, I am not fit to be in God's house. I also don't want to be in a place where the lord refuse to give support to 2 same-sex people that are in love with each other. One of my closest friend is gay, and I am extremely happy that my friend found someone that loves him just as much as my close friend do. Having sex should happen when both partners are feeling horny and want to have sex, or if they want to express their emotions to each other or if they want to have children. If you don't want to have premartial sex, okay. I am not forcing you. I never want to make you want to do anything that goes against your religion.