I didn't know the poster was a 14 year old girl, however if my children (9 years & 10 years) were to ask me about the supernatural then I would tell them exactly the same. In fact I have told them the same many years ago - there is no thing as ghosts and spirits and pixies and gods.
So I have no regrets for my comment, sorry that you feel I was out of place and I'll leave this thread to you.
I teach my kids how to think, not what to think.
So did my father, who is an agnostic. I became a born again Christian despite the fact that my dad was my everything and I thought he was the smartest man alive.
I understand where you are coming from but she came to a christian forum.
But who am I to ask you not to help. Sorry that was kinda rude of me...