So I've always prayed for to Jesus to send me a good Christian girl .... one I can read the bible with and go to church and talk about Christianity ..etc. Im 22 and always failed ... girls would pretend like they had Jesus in they're heart than the true colors would always come out. So I work at a bar ... have been for over a year and just moved to this bar/club closer to my house. Normally I would never get a girls number at work but last month I think a prayer was answered.
I was at work on the usual Saturday night just standing outside on the patio watching the crowd making sure no one fights. I saw these two girls and one really caught my attention. Beautiful blonde girl with green eyes. Im basically leaning on the walk way just posted watching everyone and I notice her keep looking at me as well. We locked eyes and kept looking away. Eventually her and her friend moved right next to me very discreetly. It still didnt process in my head because I didnt think a girl like that would like me.
Anyways her friend goes to the bathroom and the Blonde girl is just standing their alone to the right of me. She was sober and looked so out of place and bored. So this guy comes up and hits on her and she politely rejects him. After I saw that I made up my mind I wouldnt go talk to her ..plus the fact she was in the club. Her friend comes back from the bathroom and than these really drunk guys come up on them and start hitting on them and wouldn't back off ... at this point I was like man they look very scared I better step in. So I grab both of them and say "theyre with me guys" and they all backed off. The blond girl starts thanking me and we start talking 1 on 1. Turns out her friend had dragged her to the bar and she never goes out drinking or partying.
I get her number and ask her out on a date. Purposely wear a Jesus tank top and when we were on the date she goes "I love your tank top" and I start asking her about her religion. She tells me she takes her and her kids to church every week and never miss it and how she feels horrible not going. Even said her kids cry when shes not feeling good and cant make it to church. Told me she even felt bad showing up to church the next day after that night at the bar but her friend really dragged her out because she didn't want to be lonely. As we talk more Im amazed at how much chemistry there was between us. She never goes out and parties she just stays at home and takes care of her kids and practices her faith.
I pulled the ultimate test which always fails with most girls. Brought her back to my house at 2 am ... we go in my bedroom she doesn't do anything we just continue talking .... knew right than and their she wasnt putting up a front .... she was really a good Christian girl. Ever since we've been hanging out we watch bible sermons on T.V and talk about Jesus ... never got the opportunity to talk about Jesus with a girl.
She told me yesterday she feels like God answered her prayer and I was thinking the same exact thing. Only problem is my parents are middle eastern and hate me dating they would never allow it. She makes a good living and supports herself and her kids ... told me im always welcomed in her home. Would it be considered disobeying your parents in this situation if I still continue seeing her. My parents would only let me date after I got a good degree which wont happen lol. I want to go with my gut feeling on this one because I have feelings for this girl. I dont want to throw away what potentially is a life changing opportunity .
Forgot to mention she was in an abusive relationship and her ex husband made her miserable ... shes been through some rough times.
I was at work on the usual Saturday night just standing outside on the patio watching the crowd making sure no one fights. I saw these two girls and one really caught my attention. Beautiful blonde girl with green eyes. Im basically leaning on the walk way just posted watching everyone and I notice her keep looking at me as well. We locked eyes and kept looking away. Eventually her and her friend moved right next to me very discreetly. It still didnt process in my head because I didnt think a girl like that would like me.
Anyways her friend goes to the bathroom and the Blonde girl is just standing their alone to the right of me. She was sober and looked so out of place and bored. So this guy comes up and hits on her and she politely rejects him. After I saw that I made up my mind I wouldnt go talk to her ..plus the fact she was in the club. Her friend comes back from the bathroom and than these really drunk guys come up on them and start hitting on them and wouldn't back off ... at this point I was like man they look very scared I better step in. So I grab both of them and say "theyre with me guys" and they all backed off. The blond girl starts thanking me and we start talking 1 on 1. Turns out her friend had dragged her to the bar and she never goes out drinking or partying.
I get her number and ask her out on a date. Purposely wear a Jesus tank top and when we were on the date she goes "I love your tank top" and I start asking her about her religion. She tells me she takes her and her kids to church every week and never miss it and how she feels horrible not going. Even said her kids cry when shes not feeling good and cant make it to church. Told me she even felt bad showing up to church the next day after that night at the bar but her friend really dragged her out because she didn't want to be lonely. As we talk more Im amazed at how much chemistry there was between us. She never goes out and parties she just stays at home and takes care of her kids and practices her faith.
I pulled the ultimate test which always fails with most girls. Brought her back to my house at 2 am ... we go in my bedroom she doesn't do anything we just continue talking .... knew right than and their she wasnt putting up a front .... she was really a good Christian girl. Ever since we've been hanging out we watch bible sermons on T.V and talk about Jesus ... never got the opportunity to talk about Jesus with a girl.
She told me yesterday she feels like God answered her prayer and I was thinking the same exact thing. Only problem is my parents are middle eastern and hate me dating they would never allow it. She makes a good living and supports herself and her kids ... told me im always welcomed in her home. Would it be considered disobeying your parents in this situation if I still continue seeing her. My parents would only let me date after I got a good degree which wont happen lol. I want to go with my gut feeling on this one because I have feelings for this girl. I dont want to throw away what potentially is a life changing opportunity .
Forgot to mention she was in an abusive relationship and her ex husband made her miserable ... shes been through some rough times.