"That just tore my heart out, and I have tried very hard not to judge others ever since,"In terms of Christianity I think a liberal Christian is a little more lax with things such as rules and doesn't think of things as being quite so strict. I never set out to define myself as such but I found I could not get behind all the things that went against my human rights principles - it took having a conversation with a friend who confessed to me that he was gay before I properly understood what it all meant. He wasn't a wicked, perverted, filthy sinner as some Christians would believe, he was a kind, quiet, sensitive, lonely person who could only make that special bond with someone of the same sex. And he hated himself for it. That just tore my heart out, and I have tried very hard not to judge others ever since, and certainly not to beat them up with my Bible. I do NOT think that was what Christ wanted, nor to "educate" him or convert him or change him.
And yet you still judge:
"He wasn't a wicked, perverted, filthy sinner as some Christians would believe, he was a kind, quiet, sensitive, lonely person who could only make that special bond with someone of the same sex."
You judge he wasn't a really bad sinner. You judge other Christians by calling them judgmental. You judge him to be kind, quiet, sensitive and lonely. Nice-ness does not make you righteous in God's eyes. That is why it says, Lord, Lord, look at all we did in your name! And Jesus says, "I never knew you."
Yes, do not beat him up with your Bible. But he does need educated and converted so Christ can change him. Or don't you think Christ can?