Yes, I believe that you are. When it comes to the "moral" sphere we should not be pointing our fingers at others, especially since we have all sinned and come short of the glory of God.Yes, I think I see your point-the Word is our ultimate authority and the basis for any reproof, correction, judgement, condemnation. As Ambassadors of Christ; we are responsible and given authority through God's Word for leadership if put in that position. Pastors head the Church, Fathers head the Home, Mothers, head the Children-Christ is the head of All.
'Judging' on our own accord is not scriptural-and living in hypocrisy as a 'leader' is also not scriptural. Am I close to your reasoning?