My sister, you can not mean that.
Eph 5:23 ...........
“
For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body”.
1Co 7:4 ..........
The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife).
Num 30:13,14..........
Every vow, and every binding oath to afflict the soul, her husband may establish it, or her husband may make it void. But if her husband altogether hold his peace at her from day to day; then he establisheth all her vows, or all her bonds, which are upon her: he confirmeth them, because he held his peace at her in the day that he heard them
1 Timothy 2:11-15 ...................
"Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness. I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet. For Adam was formed first, then Eve; and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor."
Ephesians 5:22-33
"Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior.
Yeah, I
mean that.
1. The word,
kephale doesn't mean that man is over the woman as authority, but that out of man,
the source, woman was created.
Kephale's meaning in your verse offered as some kind of proof text has the meaning of
source or
origin.
Man is the
origin/kephale of woman; Christ is the
source/kephale of the Church--of man, as His Creator; and God is the
origin/kephale of the man, our Messiah, Jesus Christ.
As in
1 Corinthians 11:3
But I want you to know that the head of every man is Christ, the head of woman
is man, and the head of Christ
is God.
2. Husbands and wives have claim to the bodies of each other equally.
3. Wives and husbands and the authority God has given them has no carry-over to relationships outside the home. No man has any authority over me except my husband, and vice versa. Now, my pastors, both male and female, and my other spiritual leaders, I give deference to under God.
4. As for 1 Timothy 2...you have it wrong. Paul was teaching people how to behave in church. Self-serving usurping of authority by anyone, male or female (as Paul was addressing), is wrong.
Women in Paul's day were having trouble refraining from speaking out in church, thus overstepping reasonable boundaries. God still places women in positions of spiritual authority. We have to be careful---both men and women---that we (male or female) do not seek and grasp authority for ourselves that rightfully belongs to another (male or female)---which is what usurping is.
I really don't think that many Christians bother to learn the meaning of "usurp".