Do you really think that's what he (and I and many others) are doing? Judging you for your "confidence"? The problem is that you don't allow for opinions other than your own on anything at all. I suggest there are 73 books in the Bible? Nope, there are 66, I'm wrong and that's all there is to it. I say I'm saved at the time of my baptism? Nope, that's wrong too, it's done your way. This is what people are having to tell you over and over, there's your way and our way but only God's way is correct, and that's the way YOU do it. How can you not see that as arrogant? How can you not see that as frustrating to other people? And you use it as a cheap cop-out every single time.