Proverbs 22:6 (KJV)
Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
This applies to spiritual children too. What we're taught when we're first saved, right or wrong, is near impossible to overcome.
Proverbs 1:5 (KJV)
A wise [man] will hear, and will increase learning; and a man of understanding shall attain unto wise counsels:
Everyone must take the time to settle a subject in their heart. I know it was very hard for me to give up the idea about Islam vs. Rome until I did my own study. I did the same thing after that 1988 guy. My study told me that we have a day we cannot know (Rapture) and a day in which we know when Jesus returns to rule 1000 years - Feast of Trumpets. This is an interesting feast because it is tied to the siting of a new moon by two approved witnesses and then declared. So no one can know the day or the hour in which 1 Tishri starts. It is one of the few feasts that can be within a two days timeframe.
I also believe that 2 Peter 3:4 explains why so many are against end-time studies. I'm 48 and when I got saved at 11, my dad told me I surely wouldn't see my 16th birthday because the Lord was coming. People, like you said
@Silk, have "Second Coming Fatigue". I wanted to have this thread so we could discuss and explain how we see the end times and how they play out.
The problem is people take things too personal about this subject. To say the rapture isn't true changes our thoughts about wrath and judgement. If people truly understood how bad the tribulation will be they'd be terrified. Knowing this, isn't this why Paul wrote about the rapture?
1 Thessalonians 4:17-18 (KJV)
Then we which are alive [and] remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord. Wherefore comfort one another with these words.
I wonder what they call this event then?