Hmm... I say the same, Barb-b.
(assuming you're joking, of course. No one knows the day or the hour!)
I often find it frustrating that the "truth" is not always apparent, especially about tough issues like death, relationships, and *shudder* /politics/...
However, the only thing that we can really do, short of understanding why, is just grit our teeth and pray, and wait. Patience can be your biggest ally, especially when it comes to the big stuff.
Because we may not know the whole Truth for a long, long time....
... or we may find out five minutes from now. Praise God, because he does things in His own time, whether we like it or not.
:israel: