If you visited one of the other forums I go to you would understand this in a whole new light!
Correctly dividing the Word, means, I believe to look at it under the guidance of the Holy Spirit taking into account whom and where it was written to, and the application for us today.
Too many people put their own personal spin on it, based on their experience or lack of it, instead or seeing what God intended.
I will right it down with your permission of course, and tell that to someone in my family that also tear that scripture apart. Thanks!