I am hoping that this thread will birth a healthy and loving discussion on what it means to speak truth with love?
Are we so eager to correct a brother/sister in error/sin that we forget to pray and consult the Lord on how we should approach?
Are we just looking to correct so that we might feel better ourselves so as to wash the blood off our hands?
Are we able to have a healthy discussion with the one who is in error/sin? or do we simply speak and close the discussion without listening and offering Godly counsel?
In my life... I have experienced those who point their fingers and judge without much else to add.... but.... BUT.... I have also experienced the believer who is so FILLED with WISDOM... HUMILITY and LOVE... that they understand the need for careful consideration in how they go about with their correction. Their counsel invites dialogue. They do not seem afraid of getting "dirty" so to speak... and because of this.... trust is earned and the one who is in error is gently led to the TRUTH without guilt or condemnation.
THAT to me is what a spirit filled Christian is supposed to be. That is how Jesus operated. He NEVER condemned... He gently corrected and offered the TRUTH.
Heavenly Father... I desire to be the type of Christian that is not afraid to get dirty... and not afraid to speak truth. Jesus did this so effortlessly. Why is it so difficult for us to humble ourselves and lead by example?
I know for myself... I have NEVER been changed by the one who dare point a finger of judgement at me... but I have been deeply changed by the one who dared explain things to me in a loving and nurturing manner.
Are we so eager to correct a brother/sister in error/sin that we forget to pray and consult the Lord on how we should approach?
Are we just looking to correct so that we might feel better ourselves so as to wash the blood off our hands?
Are we able to have a healthy discussion with the one who is in error/sin? or do we simply speak and close the discussion without listening and offering Godly counsel?
In my life... I have experienced those who point their fingers and judge without much else to add.... but.... BUT.... I have also experienced the believer who is so FILLED with WISDOM... HUMILITY and LOVE... that they understand the need for careful consideration in how they go about with their correction. Their counsel invites dialogue. They do not seem afraid of getting "dirty" so to speak... and because of this.... trust is earned and the one who is in error is gently led to the TRUTH without guilt or condemnation.
THAT to me is what a spirit filled Christian is supposed to be. That is how Jesus operated. He NEVER condemned... He gently corrected and offered the TRUTH.
Heavenly Father... I desire to be the type of Christian that is not afraid to get dirty... and not afraid to speak truth. Jesus did this so effortlessly. Why is it so difficult for us to humble ourselves and lead by example?
I know for myself... I have NEVER been changed by the one who dare point a finger of judgement at me... but I have been deeply changed by the one who dared explain things to me in a loving and nurturing manner.