It comes down to free will. But what is interesting is that many times I wonder why have I used my free will to choose Jesus and others not. I love truth, and apparently all the lost hate the love of the truth, 2 Thess 2:10. But WHY would anyone use their free will to hate the love of truth? That question has always baffled me.
I once was baffled as to free will being my choice to choose to be saved, but have come to the biblical conviction God choose me I didn't choose Him and have been at peace since then. The important thing is you know Jesus as savior and this truth will be settled in heaven.