Yes, it can seem that way, if you let that thought govern your thinking. However if you really want to throw a monkey wrench in things (in the enemy's plans).... spend that time when he's out, with the Father, and meditating on the Word, get into worship and good godly preaching. Allow The manifested presence of our Lord take you to new heights, and dementions of His love. Then by focusing on God, your not giving any place to the devil, or your husbands evil actions...and will be rejuvinated more than ever.