Those feelings of being a fool are from the enemy. It's a thought that needs to be taken captive and shown the door. Read 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8. God's ways are love and even thougjt the world says its foolish....God says love never failsI love him more than he'll ever know. I just feel like I'll be a fool to continue to allow him to hurt me like this .
This is what I am talking about. I get it, believe me I get it however it is a lot easier at times to get our feelings or understanding mixed in with the Father and far to many times we make the wrong choice and slow or hinder what the Father could do.I feel like I'm forced to separate it isn't optional. If I really love myself I have to leave him but I don't want to.
That would be an attitude to have when seeking God in this. That way He can direct you easier. It clears your heart of ought against you which your going to have to let go and forgive either way.CTurtle are you saying you think I should pray my way through the marriage since I entered it already?
According to 2 Corinthians 10:3-5 its not your husband committing the acts. Yes its his flesh, and he did make the choice to act upon the evil thoughts, but our real enemy is the devil and his demons who are out to steal, kill and destroy. And they are the ones that you are fighting against. They're the ones who are out to hurt you.Ok I'll read that tonight. Tell me this if you will. How is it he gets to hurt me and do me wrong? And I fight for it continuing to be torn?
Yes, it can seem that way, if you let that thought govern your thinking. However if you really want to throw a monkey wrench in things (in the enemy's plans).... spend that time when he's out, with the Father, and meditating on the Word, get into worship and good godly preaching. Allow The manifested presence of our Lord take you to new heights, and dementions of His love. Then by focusing on God, your not giving any place to the devil, or your husbands evil actions...and will be rejuvinated more than ever.I feel like it's so unfair. He gets to leave cut off his phone and go out partying. I'm sitting at the house half way dead from stressing thinking he got to be cheating. He comes home and manipulates me and act like nothing happened and I'm wrong. Bringing a child into a broken home is DANGEROUS.
Yes, it can seem that way, if you let that thought govern your thinking. However if you really want to throw a monkey wrench in things (in the enemy's plans).... spend that time when he's out, with the Father, and meditating on the Word, get into worship and good godly preaching. Allow The manifested presence of our Lord take you to new heights, and dementions of His love. Then by focusing on God, your not giving any place to the devil, or your husbands evil actions...and will be rejuvinated more than ever.
You are right that the Bible does make cheating grounds for divorce, but that's not God's ultimate desire.Ok that makes a LOT of sense. Now it's how do you put that in perspective. How do you continue to try to love with a child who will pick up on when things are not going good. How do u love someone who doesn't want to he loved they push you away. I absolutely cannot and will not tolerate cheating. If I'm not mistaken doesn't the Bible make this grounds for divorce?
The devil is good at that. Its how he tricks us into allowing his ways into our thinking, and then we respond in hisnways which causes strife.Wow that just took my level of thinking to a new level. You're right and maybe he could just be out with friends. Maybe the devil puts other things in my mind as a means to torment me.
Very true. And the devil will try hard to keep you from putting all this into action. So if you goof, just quickly repent and get back up, determining to experience the victory that God has already bought for you.That's amazing! That helps me a lot noe it's just a matter of exercising those things. A lot of the time I rest easy in knowing he'll reap everything he's sewed. That sounds kind of cruel but it helps me rest easy. Knowing someday he will suffer for hurting me and God is gonna make him pay.
Yup. 2 Corinthians 10:5... take every thought captive and refuse to think it. Make it line up with What Gods Word says. Philippians 4:8So when I feel those evil thoughts I need listen to my praise and worship or get on my knees and say a prayer. Do something to get away from the enemy attacking my thoughts.