Hey Tink,
Some very good advice given here by some great men and women of God. Here's my story in a few sentences. I have NEVER seriously dated girls/women, only been on out on a few one day hangouts which the Lord very quickly revealed to me that it wasn't meant to be and I thank him that I was able to hear his voice clearly enough to pull back. I have NEVER kissed or had sex upto date and I turned 26 last Oct.
Over a series of events the Lord has led me to a girl far away from me about 10,000 kms. She on the other hand is a new Christian. I know he has led me to her because I have asked him for sign after sign if she is the right one for me and he has very faithfully done so. We keep in touch every day though text, we talk about scripture/the bible/the world etc etc. We talk on the phone now and then and skype etc. Im about to take the next step and visit her soon. There is a peace about the whole thing. A few questions I would like to ask you and you don't necessarily have to answer them here:
- Do you feel the peace of the Holy Spirit on you in this relationship?
- Have you asked the Lord through his Holy Spirit to give you a sign of somewhat that he is the one for you?
- I know you say that you trust him but - ask the Holy Spirit to reveal to you is he isn't?
- Also If God is giving you a warning sign take it seriously because you want someone who is on the same spiritual level as you if not higher
Trust me I have been practicing the above while spending time with the Lord and he is showing me. If you already have and you do believe he might be the one, take baby steps and ask God to stop/block your and his way if you are not meant to be. I LOVE working with the Lord on signs and he does them all the time if you'd ask him.
Lastly there is a book I'd like to recommend by a very good Christian author. I've been reading it myself and its helping me get prepared for marriage - spiritually, physically, mentally, emotionally etc etc...
God is your matchmaker by Stephanie Herzog
http://goo.gl/gXYzg
God Bless and lead you with this..
Jake