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Will not praise a God that allows harm to come to my little girl. I just cannot bring myself to do that.
All that goes on in the world is allowed, because it is Satan's territory. You cannot be blaming God for the sin that you see around you. Your daughter is alive, and she has you to give her strength and you of all the people she knows is supposed to be her spiritual leader. How can you offer truth and comfort to her when you've lost your way in grief and blame?

Take a step back, and ask God to give you His mind in this.
 
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Will not praise a God that allows harm to come to my little girl. I just cannot bring myself to do that.
Knowing the whole story might help and seeking God in this will bring you truth. Brother if you want to blame God and quickly turn on Him over this then that is your choice but I can tell you that you are makeing a huge mistake.

You said the adults there do not believe in God where your daughter is. Think about it for they open up their home to anything and how do you know God did not protect her. Why did it take so many months for you to find out and not after the first time ?
 
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Knowing the whole story might help and seeking God in this will bring you truth. Brother if you want to blame God and quickly turn on Him over this then that is your choice but I can tell you that you are makeing a huge mistake.

You said the adults there do not believe in God where your daughter is. Think about it for they open up their home to anyting and how do you know God did not protect her. Why did it take so many months for you to find out and not after the first time ?
Because the monster manipulated and threatened my daughter into not saying anything. She finally said something this past Wednesday at school with her guidance counselor. This is why it took so many months. She was afraid to say anything for fear that everyone would be mad at her.

God made a huge mistake by allowing it to happen when He could have stopped it.
 
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Well, now the law will get involved and this idiot will get what's coming to him. That will give you some satisfaction. You can focus on getting help for your daughter early on so she won't have time for serious emotional scarring to set in.
 

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Because the monster manipulated and threatened my daughter into not saying anything. She finally said something this past Wednesday at school with her guidance counselor. This is why it took so many months. She was afraid to say anything for fear that everyone would be mad at her.

God made a huge mistake by allowing it to happen when He could have stopped it.
Right now your Hurt and anger are stronger then your faith and trust in God and you will make bad choices. God is the only one you can count on to help you in this and even though it feels like God is the blame He is NOT .
 
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Because the monster manipulated and threatened my daughter into not saying anything. She finally said something this past Wednesday at school with her guidance counselor. This is why it took so many months. She was afraid to say anything for fear that everyone would be mad at her.

God made a huge mistake by allowing it to happen when He could have stopped it.
I want to ask you one question....who do you live for?
 
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Ok.

Who did you live for before this terrible thing happened?
That would be God. It doesn't mean that I am not going to get angry and blame Him for this, especially when He could have stopped from happening.
 
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That would be God.
Are you sure of this? Really evaluate yourself.

Were you living for God or for what you could get out of Him? Don't take my direct question in the wrong way. I am trying to make you see the truth about the matter because I love you.
 
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That would be God. It doesn't mean that I am not going to get angry and blame Him for this, especially when He could have stopped from happening.
How could God have stopped it from happening? Besides, how do you know He didn't intervene and stop something worse from happening to your daughter, or you, or anyone you love---every day? He hears your prayers and responds, despite what you may think.

Satan is the god of this world, and he enters in and stirs things up in areas where God is not the ruler of men's hearts.
 
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How could God have stopped it from happening? Besides, how do you know He didn't intervene and stop something worse from happening to your daughter, or you, or anyone you love---every day? He hears your prayers and responds, despite what you may think.

Satan is the god of this world, and he enters in and stirs things up in areas where God is not the ruler of men's hearts.
How could God have stopped it from happening? Besides, how do you know He didn't intervene and stop something worse from happening to your daughter, or you, or anyone you love---every day? He hears your prayers and responds, despite what you may think.

Satan is the god of this world, and he enters in and stirs things up in areas where God is not the ruler of men's hearts.
How could God have stopped it from happening? Do you really need to ask that type of question?
 
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Yes, I am very sure of this. I am not a what can I get out Him kind of person.
My brother if this was true then why are you angry at Him and wanting to desert Him for Him not giving you what you asked for? Think about it for a minute. Is this how someone behaves that is living for someone else?
 
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How could God have stopped it from happening? Do you really need to ask that type of question?
Yes. He is under no obligation to intercede among unbelievers. Even believers become victims of evil people. Satan has an agenda against our children---they are his easiest of prey. He hurts our children so that we would become spiritually sidetracked and take a major detour in our walk with God.

When we stand in the gap for people, then God is ready to work. However, when people we love are assaulted and violated, we can run to the Father and gain wisdom and comfort concerning anything about it and he is right there for us. When we stand there and bitterly accuse God, then He cannot work for us.
 
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My brother if this was true then why are you angry at Him and wanting to desert Him for Him not giving you what you asked for? Think about it for a minute. Is this how someone behaves that is living for someone else?
Your opinion, which means nothing to me.
 
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When we stand there and bitterly accuse God, then He cannot work for us.
Oh well, he didn't work for me when my daughter was sexually abused, so there isn't much difference.

I am grieving right now, I am allowed to grieve and allowed to blame God if I so choose.
 
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