Now it depends if the desire about getting a man who is exactly like Severus is a selfish desire or my heart's desire... I think it's my heart's desire because I am really very much in love with Severus...
Did I Get Saved Yet?
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You are overlooking the first part. How are you delighting in The Lord?
I don't know what does delighting mean...
I fully agree with what Brother Paul, Ceile De, and gonefishing are saying about not worrying and being thankful. When you worry about what may be, you not only live in negativity but you won't be able to see blessings because you are blocking them with doubt and fear. God works through faith in everything in our lives.
The bible says, "everything that does not come from faith is sin" (Romans 14:23).
Doubt and negativity need to be blocked the same way that evil does. "All my thoughts and emotions are washed in the blood of Jesus." The reason you want a particular man is to be happy and feel loved. But Gods way is for you to be happy and feel loved before you get the man. Not only that but he wants you to know how to give love before you get the man. The reason for this is that even if you got a man you "wanted" if you didn't know how to give love and receive love (which often has to be learned) then the relationship will likely end in disaster. If it is God that is going to give someone their husband, he wants the relationship blessed so that there is a true commitment of love between the two people and they are compatible, like they both are saved. God brings someone when they are ready and the relationship can work.
You can have happiness now. A relationship should be a bonus, not what makes you happy. God can make you happy now. Learn from him so when you do end up having a relationship it will be a happy and loving one. Learn to be happy now by trusting God for your joy and peace. When you trust in God for your joy and peace you experience a happiness greater than anything you can imagine.
Don't block your happiness and peace with negativity and doubt. Block your negativity and doubt with the joy and peace you get from God when you place your husband fears and all fears in God's hands.
"Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you" (1 Peter 5:7).
Delighting is being happy. Aren't you thankful that God loves you and watches over you and you can cast your cares on him. God wants what is best for you. He doesn't want you harmed but wants you joyful and having great peace. To have the joy and peace you need to trust him for it and block all negative thoughts that says you can't have it.
Be blessed.
Okay, but I really hope God will give me a man who is like and looks like Severus, not someone who is not like or doesn't look like Severus just because the non-Severus man would be the "right one"I fully agree with what Brother Paul, Ceile De, and gonefishing are saying about not worrying and being thankful. When you worry about what may be, you not only live in negativity but you won't be able to see blessings because you are blocking them with doubt and fear. God works through faith in everything in our lives.
The bible says, "everything that does not come from faith is sin" (Romans 14:23).
Doubt and negativity need to be blocked the same way that evil does. "All my thoughts and emotions are washed in the blood of Jesus." The reason you want a particular man is to be happy and feel loved. But Gods way is for you to be happy and feel loved before you get the man. Not only that but he wants you to know how to give love before you get the man. The reason for this is that even if you got a man you "wanted" if you didn't know how to give love and receive love (which often has to be learned) then the relationship will likely end in disaster. If it is God that is going to give someone their husband, he wants the relationship blessed so that there is a true commitment of love between the two people and they are compatible, like they both are saved. God brings someone when they are ready and the relationship can work.
You can have happiness now. A relationship should be a bonus, not what makes you happy. God can make you happy now. Learn from him so when you do end up having a relationship it will be a happy and loving one. Learn to be happy now by trusting God for your joy and peace. When you trust in God for your joy and peace you experience a happiness greater than anything you can imagine.
Don't block your happiness and peace with negativity and doubt. Block your negativity and doubt with the joy and peace you get from God when you place your husband fears and all fears in God's hands.
"Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you" (1 Peter 5:7).
Delighting is being happy. Aren't you thankful that God loves you and watches over you and you can cast your cares on him. God wants what is best for you. He doesn't want you harmed but wants you joyful and having great peace. To have the joy and peace you need to trust him for it and block all negative thoughts that says you can't have it.
Be blessed.
I do not believe God will bring a man unto you that is a conjuring Sorcerer...but if you mean one with similar physical attributes...perhaps...but when you meet the one you love, looks have little to do with it...so if you are looking for a conjuring sorcerer you are only gonna find one in the devil's camp...
Polly, I have confidence that God has many happy and great things for your life. Just keep focusing on God and the beautiful things.
Much happiness and blessings for you!
I meant that I want a Christian man who is like and looks like Severus, but he has to be mysterious and chill.
That's possible...
I think usually people who want to get married are the ones that will... others choose to be single.
So it's a matter about just choosing, and not that God would think that it would be better if some people are single even if they want to get married?
I think if God wanted you to be single, He would put that desire on your heart.
Okay, but remember that God doesn't force people...
No, he doesn't force.
So He is willing to give me a man who is exactly like Severus? Remember that there are 7 billion people in this world, and millions of British men, and it's not uncommon to have natural black midlong hair and black or dark brown eyes, and pale or light skin... And there are a lot of British men like that who are mysterious and chill... But the age... Depends if there are men like that who are 30-46yo and single and Christian...
I like a certain type of guy and that's what I wound up marrying.
And was he the exactly same what you wanted? Same personalities, same looks, same voice, same everything? Or were there certain things that didn't come with the man?